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*LIVE* documentation of 30 days
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Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 08 Nov 2020 16:46 #357179

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DAY #6

I didnt get to update the last few days. But I am burich Hashem still clean!! 

I am promising here in public that today I am going to stay clean, which means I am NOT going to search for shmutz and if shmutz enters unwillingly I will not click to open the link or the video. 

A promise by me is kept! 

Hashem, you are here for me! I can feel it! stay here! help me fight!
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 08 Nov 2020 16:48 #357181

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Clever words! @Hashem help me



I am implementing that in my strategy!! Thank you, my friend!
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 
Last Edit: 08 Nov 2020 16:49 by yuyu.

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 12 Nov 2020 18:49 #357345

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Any news?

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 12 Nov 2020 21:04 #357350

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How's it going? 
Are you confident with your plan? 
I found that when I could barely stay clean for a couple of days it helped to make my plan designed to be a 1 week plan during which I really pushed myself. Once the week was up I could look back and see what I could really achieve. But it's important for it to be short term and within reason. Otherwise known as ODAAT (one day at a time). 

Keep us posted
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Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 13 Nov 2020 03:03 #357364

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Day # 10

Thank you guys for checking up on me. 

I am fine Bh. Here are the updates. 

2 days ago I sat down with myself for a little deep thinking. Called Hisbonenes.

I was thinking about what my strategy can be.

I thought and thought.. then I realized that my focus has been to much on the actual lust. It’s nearly impossible for me to overcome a lust attack  when being face to face with it.

So I figured let me get back to basics and that is:  

What have been my main triggers lately? 

I took out a sheet of paper and made a list. It made me realize that I’m way too exposed and close by to the trigger. If triggers are near you than all you need is a small trigger. From there until a full fledged blown attack is a tiny jump. 

I figured I gotta put my energy in distancing myself  from the trigger. Instead of putting my energy in finding ways to be “strong” against the enemy itself. 

I saw that one of the main triggers happen while causal bumping into improper images on the web. Because I asked a long time ago my filter to open the images section of google. So Basically I could see anything there, even if I can’t actually go into that website. I need the images open for business purposes, but I realized that I’ve got to close that! This is ain’t doing good to me. I gotta make that sacrifice. Too bad.

So before I could even think, I sent an email to the filter company to lock my google images section. Then I asked them to lock a site that had terrible content on it, which I’ve asked them to open a while ago also for business purposes. Then I listed a few other triggers and I made a neder to stay away of those triggers for an X amount of days. And I gave myself a consequence if I break the neder, something that I wanna avoid for all cost. I also have put a reminder on my desk with the list of triggers. So I should be able to remember to stay away. 

So far so good BH. I’m really hopeful that this is going to work.

I BH got rid of major major triggers. BH for that! 
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 13 Nov 2020 04:29 #357373

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You are a role model for everyone on GYE! How many people actually seriously identify their triggers and take such immediate action? Very few, but YOU are one of them! This should be a huge zchus in fighting this battle! 

Keep up the great work! 

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 13 Nov 2020 15:08 #357388

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Day #11

WOW, thanks @Realestatemogul! Humbled from the great compliment. Thank you! 

I think this is the only way to be successful in this battle. In the past, all long streaks I have been able to do came only as a result of addressing my triggers and taking action to get rid of them or to distance myself from it as far as possible.
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 13 Nov 2020 15:58 #357390

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How are you going to use that rifle without a trigger? Maybe you should go back to the fistfighting guy you had before
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 13 Nov 2020 17:36 #357392

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Haha. It’s the same guy... he just felt insecure without a rifle... let me think how to tell him that Gevura suggests to get rid of this trigger too... 
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 15 Nov 2020 18:32 #357417

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DAY #13



B"H 4 days and still clean. 
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 16 Nov 2020 21:59 #357459

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DAY #14



5 days clean B"h
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 17 Nov 2020 22:08 #357487

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DAY #15 

6 Days clean BH.
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 18 Nov 2020 04:11 #357501

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You are one brave and focused fellow. You sound like a martial arts guy - who doesn't need a gun at all.
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Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 18 Nov 2020 23:07 #357529

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Day #16

7 day clean BH
What does a GUN and LUST have in common? 
Remove the trigger, you remove their power. 
Last Edit: 18 Nov 2020 23:08 by yuyu.

Re: *LIVE* documentation of 30 days 18 Nov 2020 23:47 #357531

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yuyu wrote on 18 Nov 2020 23:07:
Day #16

7 day clean BH

Mazal tov on a week! Many more!
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