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Re: Overcoming challenges 19 Jan 2021 05:25 #361550

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29	You are awesome!! Keep it up!!!
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Jan 2021 05:46 #361666

zedj Current streak: 14 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 627 Karma: 46	58 days clean Thank you @R.E.M for the shout out! Today was a stressful day but I hope to be back in shape tomorrow. I'm not sure if it's because the winter is getting to me or because it was laundry day... I guess we will find out eventually. One day at a time! Wishing you all well
	One who has given up hope is without a G‑d. One who sees hope in each day is already free Last Edit: 21 Jan 2021 05:48 by zedj.

Re: Overcoming challenges 22 Jan 2021 06:49 #361720

zedj Current streak: 14 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 627 Karma: 46	59 days clean Pulling through here BH Wishing you all well
	One who has given up hope is without a G‑d. One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 22 Jan 2021 06:55 #361721

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Zedj wrote on 22 Jan 2021 06:49:

59 days clean

Pulling through here BH

Wishing you all well

and pulling all of us with you too!!!

"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"

My Thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/361746-Striving-for-Excellence
Believe in yourself: guardyoureyes.com/forum/15-The-Torah-amp-Chizuk-Approach/357766-Bunch-of-Quotes-I-Gained-from-over-the-years

Check this out too for some Chizuk: www.guardureyes.com/GUE/PDFs/eBooks/The%20First%20Day%20of%20the%20Rest%20of%20My%20Life.pdf

Re: Overcoming challenges 22 Jan 2021 16:56 #361733

willdoit Current streak: 24 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 274 Karma: 12	Zedj wrote on 22 Jan 2021 06:49: 59 days clean Pulling through here BH Wishing you all well Keep going!!! every clean minute is a diamond.

Re: Overcoming challenges 22 Jan 2021 21:43 #361742

zedj Current streak: 14 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 627 Karma: 46	60 days clean Thank you excellence and willdoit Wishing you all well and a good shabbos!
	One who has given up hope is without a G‑d. One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 25 Jan 2021 03:52 #361842

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: Overcoming challenges 25 Jan 2021 04:40 #361849

Ish MiGrodno Current streak: 1444 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 515 Karma: 34	Wow Zedj, mazel tov on this truly remarkable accomplishment! Please reflect and let us know what has been working for you? i.e., what three pieces of advice would you give to a newbie on GYE? The zechusim you have for the chizuk that you give to others is immeasurable ~ IMG
	ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳] Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro Feel free to reach out to me at jackz90dys@gmail.com

Re: Overcoming challenges 25 Jan 2021 04:40 #361850

zedj Current streak: 14 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 627 Karma: 46	62 days clean I'm not having the the easiest day so thank you R.E.M for the applause. It gave me the extra boost! Overall good day but it got a little harder a few hours ago. BH doing alright now. I gotta keep my head on straight when I suddenly get a fantasy attack or when I feel weak. What helps you ask? 1-reaching out 2-distraction Wishing you all well
	One who has given up hope is without a G‑d. One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 26 Jan 2021 06:10 #361969

zedj
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Ish MiGrodno wrote on 25 Jan 2021 04:40:

Wow Zedj, mazel tov on this truly remarkable accomplishment!

Please reflect and let us know what has been working for you?
i.e., what three pieces of advice would you give to a newbie on GYE?

The zechusim you have for the chizuk that you give to others is immeasurable ~ IMG

63 days clean

Thank you!
Yes it truly is remarkable!
I never thought I can live 3 weeks without porn.
Now B"H I'm 63 days clean (9 weeks)!

Had a much better day today.

@Ish MiGrodno you got me thinking!
I wil BEZH post about what has helped me in the near future.

Wishing you all well

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 27 Jan 2021 04:50 #362057

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29	You are doing great! Look how far you have come! Every day you are a different person, and have new capabilities from reaching new heights!
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: Overcoming challenges 29 Jan 2021 20:37 #362279

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67 days clean

Thank you R.E.M!

Every day I thank Hashem for a clean day and I daven that I don't lose control over myself.

When I say modeh ani in the morning besides for thanking Hashem for a new day of life, I ask for a clean day, a day of proper avodah and just to be a mentch.

Yes I may struggle with some of the above, but it's the goal I wish to reach....to be a different person from what I once was.

Wishing you all a good shabbos!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Last Edit: 29 Jan 2021 21:37 by zedj.

Re: Overcoming challenges 29 Jan 2021 22:08 #362281

Ish MiGrodno Current streak: 1444 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 515 Karma: 34	When I say modeh ani in the morning besides for thanking Hashem for a new day of life, I ask for a clean day, a day of proper avodah and just to be a mentch. Wow, bli neder I will try that as well next week! Modeh Ani may be "overlooked" by other (more obligatory) tefillos, but it is oh so powerful... Good Shabbos, brothers!
	ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳] Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro Feel free to reach out to me at jackz90dys@gmail.com

Re: Overcoming challenges 02 Feb 2021 02:07 #362518

lou OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 430 Karma: 30	I am always inspired when I read through your thread. Keep up the amazing work. If not for yourself then at least because we need the chizuk! Hatzlocha

Re: Overcoming challenges 02 Feb 2021 04:54 #362526

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70 days clean

Thank you Lou!
I'm happy others are finding chizuk in my thread.

I myself go back to the beginning of my thread and can't believe how far I've come.

I'm so grateful for everyone here that shares there stories and chizuk, I would not be able to keep going without you guys.

I thank Hashem for giving me the strength and willpower to reach this milestone.

It really is a joyous moment for me.
So as I click the "I'm still clean" tab (if you watch closely you may be able to see the 69 turn to 70), I would like to say L'chaim! it's a miracle (for me at least) that I'm here holding where I am.

I wish those that are having a tough time to not lose hope! You will succeed! It's not an impossible feat!
For those doing well and keeping strong, I wish you continued strength and continue being a source of chizuk for all of us!

יָגַעְתִּי וְלֹא מָצָאתִי אַל תַּאַמִין לֹא יָגַעְתִּי וּמָצָאתִי אַל תַּאַמִין
יָגַעְתִּי וּמָצָאתִי תַּאַמִין

"If someone says, "I have worked hard, and I have not been successful," don't believe him. If someone says, "I have not worked hard and I have been successful," don't believe him. If someone says, "I have worked hard, and I have been successful," believe him!"

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Last Edit: 02 Feb 2021 05:21 by zedj.