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Overcoming challenges
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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: Overcoming challenges 20 Dec 2020 01:30 #359109

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26 days clean

Gut voch!
Friday night was amazing.

Shabbos day in the morning/shachris some intruders came knocking, some knocked louder some softer.
The rest of the day was fine.

Now Im trying to relax, alittle uneasy with the way I feel right now...
It will come to pass iyh.

Hope all you guys are being matzliach

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 20 Dec 2020 17:05 #359175

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Hey Zedj,

You are doing great!

26 is gematria of shem Hashem and you certainly have brought more into you life with all this great work! 

Re: Overcoming challenges 20 Dec 2020 18:49 #359204

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Thank you!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 20 Dec 2020 20:45 #359215

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Zedj, I love your posts! Keep 'em coming!

Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 04:43 #359236

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Forsure!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 04:52 #359237

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27 days clean.

Bh got through the day.
Not a hard day.
I'm heading back to yeshivah tomorrow so I will be alot more productive in the coming days and weeks.


Wishing you all well.

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 05:06 #359241

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Wishing you much Hatzlacha in yeshiva and in your quest for purity...
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Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 05:33 #359252

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Zedj wrote on 21 Dec 2020 04:52:
27 days clean.

Bh got through the day.
Not a hard day.
I'm heading back to yeshivah tomorrow so I will be alot more productive in the coming days and weeks.


Wishing you all well.

Hatzlocha in Yeshiva!!
Keep strong and keep in touch!!

Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 05:41 #359256

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Do u have access to the site in Yeshiva?

Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 05:43 #359257

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Yes

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

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Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 05:44 #359259

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Baruch HaShem. Not sure wat we’d do without u!

Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 05:46 #359260

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I know right  !

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Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2020 22:06 #359329

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28 days clean

We will start today from the beginning....

(Deep breath)- I wasn't going to post about this because it's really not something I'm worried about or necessarily feel bad about because it was not in my control  but I feel I should.

I had a wet dream this morning, I don't feel bad about it (maybe I should) it happened. Many factors could've caused it to happen..it was a hot room so that could've been it.

I usually try to sleep on my side so that this doesn't happen.
What should I do? It's not in my control.

But what does bother me is that I don't usually remember dreams ECT ECT. The dream was very vivid. I know I couldn't control it and not my fault. So as far as I'm concerned I will keep on counting.


Now to more positive things- back In yeshiva!

Also it's my birthday tonight! I will IYH post a brocha and make a L'chaim with everyone on gye soon.

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 22 Dec 2020 00:09 #359334

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Zedj wrote on 21 Dec 2020 22:06:
28 days clean

We will start today from the beginning....

(Deep breath)- I wasn't going to post about this because it's really not something I'm worried about or necessarily feel bad about because it was not in my control  but I feel I should.

I had a wet dream this morning, I don't feel bad about it (maybe I should) it happened. Many factors could've caused it to happen..it was a hot room so that could've been it.

I usually try to sleep on my side so that this doesn't happen.
What should I do? It's not in my control.

But what does bother me is that I don't usually remember dreams ECT ECT. The dream was very vivid. I know I couldn't control it and not my fault. So as far as I'm concerned I will keep on counting.



So did I! And yup was vivid dream, not an appropriate one either.......

Re: Overcoming challenges 22 Dec 2020 02:03 #359353

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An unprovoked wet dream is a good sign buddy. Your subconscious mind is getting the point that consciously you are not doing this stuff any more. Yes, it may be unpleasant, but the good news is that eventually they recede too as you rewire your brain. Congratulations and happy birthday! It must feel good to enter a new year as a loyal servant of Hashem, staying holy, and inspiring others.
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