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There must be a way
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Re: There must be a way 29 Jun 2021 09:21 #370327

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I had a little fall this morning. 
Juat a few seconds and masturbation more out of habit than desire. 
The type of fall that says 'don't let this get you down'. 
Trying to brush it off as a mistake rather than getting that feeling that it's hopeless. Kind of like remembering that the mission is the goal.
The start of 'STARting' is 'star'. Just start and you're a star!!
... and btw I really really love you! you keep me inspired!

'the cleaner I stay, the cleaner I stay' - AlexEliezer
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Re: There must be a way 28 Jul 2021 13:13 #371270

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Hey Starting how's it going?
We miss you here.
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

Re: There must be a way 02 Aug 2021 06:13 #371353

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Really appreciate your enquiring 

I have b"h a lot of work now for these few weeks and when I am not working I try to be with the family as they are home all day and (hopefully) miss me. Yesterday I worked about 8.5-9 hours without a break.

Quick update, bad week last week, clean since Friday with more of a feeling that I need to, want to and will stay relatively clean in the long run, so these 3 days have been much easier b"h. 
I see once again that it's all in the attitude, like now I feel that it's below me and got 3 days so far. Or it could be that my wife went to Mikvah...

Thinking of you a lot and wishing I could come here more
The start of 'STARting' is 'star'. Just start and you're a star!!
... and btw I really really love you! you keep me inspired!

'the cleaner I stay, the cleaner I stay' - AlexEliezer
העבר עיני מראות שוא, בדרכך חינו (תהלים קיט, לז)
PM me for my phone number
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