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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 27 Dec 2020 06:00 #359804

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When I started to celebrate every victory I started to realize that I could overcome this! I think that is this same concept of lessening the challenge.

When I came to GYE I thought it was an (almost) impossible thing to break free. Ironically, the more I was able to convince myself how possible it is to break free the more I broke free.

Breaking free is really attainable!!! Everyone can break free and it just takes a little bit of effort every day!!! Every second you are clean is worth more than you can imagine!!

I could not have said this better. Mega Dittos!

If my battle/journey could be public, I would frame your post and hang it in my office..

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro

Feel free to reach out to me at
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 01 Jan 2021 18:20 #360365

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29	Day 15 V'kam, V'kam, V'kam Day by day Stay focused Hashem loves you I can do it
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 01 Jan 2021 18:57 #360368

grant400 Current streak: 47 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1490 Karma: 173	Realestatemogul wrote on 01 Jan 2021 18:20: Day 15 V'kam, V'kam, V'kam Day by day Stay focused Hashem loves you I can do it No cliches here. You are inspiring and a role model. Thank you!
	"Just Regular Movies" Grant's Rants The Story Teller & Related Threads The Five Languages of Love Embarrassing Things We All Do and Think

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 04 Jan 2021 04:11 #360482

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Day 18 - Chai!

So I had a tough day, but BH I have a good partner and we came up with a game plan. Some exercise and finding a way to be productive helped me get through the day.

During the process, I thought of a vordt. I always wondered why Yaakov fought with the saar shel esav the whole night, and then magically in the morning when the saar shel esav had to leave then Yaakov was victorious. Why did the fight take the whole night, and what magically happened in the morning that it ended. So we know Rashi explains that in the morning malachim have to go say shira and that is why the saar shel esav wanted to leave. However that doesn't explain why until then Yaakov couldn't beat him and only then he was able to.

I thought that maybe pshat is the idea that gets thrown around GYE alot. Distracting and delaying is a great tactic against the yetzer hara! We know the saar shel esav also represents the yetzer hara, and maybe that is the lesson we are meant to learn. They fought until Alos Hashachar, because Yaakov understood that you need to just fight until the yetzer hara leaves. Stay strong and wait until the yetzer hara is gone, and right when it needs to leave and you no longer are tied to it's shackles, then you can tell the yetzer hara who is the real boss! Who really won the fight!

Don't try and take the yetzer hara head on, because you will lose. Be like Yaakov and wait. Learn some Torah, be productive, and then when the yetzer hara is gone celebrate your victory!

Check out my thread

guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 10 Jan 2021 05:53 #360965

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29	24
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 12 Jan 2021 04:27 #361114

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29	26 - #Gematria
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Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 12 Jan 2021 06:13 #361125

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Just to say, Everytime I open this thread, I am inspired. @realestatemogul, the world need more people like you.
With admiration
excellence

"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"

My Thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/361746-Striving-for-Excellence
Believe in yourself: guardyoureyes.com/forum/15-The-Torah-amp-Chizuk-Approach/357766-Bunch-of-Quotes-I-Gained-from-over-the-years

Check this out too for some Chizuk: www.guardureyes.com/GUE/PDFs/eBooks/The%20First%20Day%20of%20the%20Rest%20of%20My%20Life.pdf

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 12 Jan 2021 13:19 #361141

grant400 Current streak: 47 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1490 Karma: 173	excellence wrote on 12 Jan 2021 06:13: Just to say, Everytime I open this thread, I am inspired. @realestatemogul, the world need more people like you. With admiration excellence גם אני מצטרף להנ"ל.
	"Just Regular Movies" Grant's Rants The Story Teller & Related Threads The Five Languages of Love Embarrassing Things We All Do and Think

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 19 Jan 2021 05:30 #361552

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I appreciate the kind words!

I am on 33 so only one more week to my initial goal of 40 days...

Although I am only at 33 days, I feel stronger than before I fell on my 272 streak and maybe even my 362 streak....Knowing that I will continue to get back and fight for my shmiras habris gives me comfort and helps me realize that I don't need the shmutz!

It doesn't make it easy, but it makes it more manageable.

Check out my thread

guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 25 Jan 2021 03:51 #361841

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29	39 days. One more day until my 40 day goal.
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 25 Jan 2021 10:37 #361882

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2888 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4042	Realestatemogul wrote on 25 Jan 2021 03:51: 39 days. One more day until my 40 day goal. And then of course you want to stay clean for Purim.......
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 26 Jan 2021 03:55 #361961

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29	40 days.... I guess the next stop is purim.
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 26 Jan 2021 04:57 #361967

zedj Current streak: 14 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 627 Karma: 46	Congratulations on reaching your goal! To many more clean days!
	One who has given up hope is without a G‑d. One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 12 Feb 2021 04:43 #363209

realestatemogul Current streak: 1290 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 398 Karma: 29	57 days
	Check out my thread guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/334915-This-is-going-to-be-the-time-I-get-to-90%21

Re: This is going to be the time I get to 90! 12 Feb 2021 14:45 #363234

Boeing747 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 2 Karma: 0	Hello everyone, I have started 90 days around Kislev 20 , but this week I have relapsed. I had about 35-40 days left. I would appreciate some tips on how you motivate yourself. I had the yetzer hara overcome me, fogging my brain completely, I was weak and I broke. This time I'm going the full 90. Glad to be here.