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Re: 12 steps of SA - my newfound struggle 07 Jan 2018 16:17 #324879

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Does your wife complain about your drinking? Would she be understanding of you going to AA. I'm not saying you should go to AA but you could always tell your wife your going to your meeting and she will think it's AA and if you work on your drinking she will be happy. 
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Re: 12 steps of SA - my newfound struggle 07 Jan 2018 16:34 #324881

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I went to meetin's for almost a year - one hour drive each way.
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Re: 12 steps of SA - my newfound struggle 07 Jan 2018 17:22 #324885

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She used to, but I stopped drinking as much as I used to. I was thinking to start drinking again and than use that as an excuse. But it doesn't sit well with me.
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Re: 12 steps of SA - my newfound struggle 07 Jan 2018 17:30 #324888

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Welcome eli. You are BH focused well and want the right things. The posts are honest and clear. Maybe to fill in in between meetings, reach out to some of the chevra here. Hatzlocha 
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