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Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 12:54 #305121

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 07 Feb 2017 12:18:

Singularity wrote on 07 Feb 2017 09:14:
Do you think because it's assur for us, porn and masturbation, that more people are "kicked" into recovery in relation to the gentile population?


At the non addict level there is obviously a great difference between yidden and others. In the secular world, masturbating once in a while as a stress reliever is actually suggested by psychologists and educators. Similarly they dont have a major issue with a little porn here and there. Therefore many of us who just got in the bad habit of these things are doing everything possible to break out being that we dont want to continue doing issurim.

So, with a raise of hands (if they're available), who is here because of a spoonful of porn every once in a while?
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Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 12:58 #305122

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Singularity wrote on 07 Feb 2017 09:14:
Do you think because it's assur for us, porn and masturbation, that more people are "kicked" into recovery in relation to the gentile population?

Which is why you will never find a Jew attempting to recover from alcohol consumption.
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Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 13:44 #305128

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 07 Feb 2017 12:18:

Singularity wrote on 07 Feb 2017 09:14:
Do you think because it's assur for us, porn and masturbation, that more people are "kicked" into recovery in relation to the gentile population?


At the non addict level there is obviously a great difference between yidden and others. In the secular world, masturbating once in a while as a stress reliever is actually suggested by psychologists and educators. Similarly they dont have a major issue with a little porn here and there. Therefore many of us who just got in the bad habit of these things are doing everything possible to break out being that we dont want to continue doing issurim.


I think it's much more than that. There is no problem with having massive indecency on rated R and cable TV shows for them and all the respectable publications Will write about it. We will hear about how the Internet and all the indecency on it is ruining peoples interest in having real physical encounters and how they are upset that it is ruining peoples interest in hooking up.

What comes out very clear from the general culture is that hooking up and sleeping around is completely OK, and seeing tons of this stuff is also OK. The New York Times even had an article questioning whether it's really bad for 11-year-old kids to see the stuff. Somewhere in the article, they said that there's no evidence that it's bad for the kids and maybe it's good for them to explore a little.

We are so drastically different than the general culture, and they are so OK with going to clubs, parlors, and things like that and bachelor parties and the list goes on and on. So yes there is such a wide range of what is acceptable or at least tolerated normal behavior in the general culture. Someone in our circles he was addicted to watching Game of Thrones and well it's standard cable TV indecency would probably end up on this website and maybe even in recovery. The chances of that happening in the secular world are next to nothing

Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 14:01 #305131

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במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed
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Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 14:03 #305132

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cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed


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  1.  it was showin' funny.
  2. I'm really busy
  3. It is gettin' to me
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Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 15:54 #305140

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cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 16:13 #305142

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Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 15:54:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you as well recovered from porn and are now addicted to Giselle, Nicole, Cher and more.
 that is the way you allow your lust toI manifest itself right now.
And yes, you feel lousy about it for Jewish reasons.
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Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 16:30 #305146

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Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 15:54:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you as well recovered from porn and are now addicted to Giselle, Nicole, Cher and more.
 that is the way you allow your lust toI manifest itself right now.
And yes, you feel lousy about it for Jewish reasons.
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Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 18:06 #305152

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cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 16:30:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 15:54:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you as well recovered from porn and are now addicted to Giselle, Nicole, Cher and more.
 that is the way you allow your lust toI manifest itself right now.
And yes, you feel lousy about it for Jewish reasons.


Correction- not Cher. But otherwise, yes exactly.

Re: Hi 07 Feb 2017 18:17 #305154

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Re: Hi 08 Feb 2017 09:16 #305242

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Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 18:06:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 16:30:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 15:54:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you as well recovered from porn and are now addicted to Giselle, Nicole, Cher and more.
 that is the way you allow your lust toI manifest itself right now.
And yes, you feel lousy about it for Jewish reasons.


Correction- not Cher. But otherwise, yes exactly.

Yeah she's old and ugly now.

Cords, if you right-align your text, then we know something's up.
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Re: Hi 08 Feb 2017 13:36 #305257

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Singularity wrote on 08 Feb 2017 09:16:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 18:06:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 16:30:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 15:54:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you as well recovered from porn and are now addicted to Giselle, Nicole, Cher and more.
 that is the way you allow your lust toI manifest itself right now.
And yes, you feel lousy about it for Jewish reasons.


Correction- not Cher. But otherwise, yes exactly.

Yeah she's old and ugly now.

We take exception to that.
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Re: Hi 08 Feb 2017 13:41 #305258

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Singularity wrote on 08 Feb 2017 09:16:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 18:06:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 16:30:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 15:54:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you as well recovered from porn and are now addicted to Giselle, Nicole, Cher and more.
 that is the way you allow your lust toI manifest itself right now.
And yes, you feel lousy about it for Jewish reasons.


Correction- not Cher. But otherwise, yes exactly.

Yeah she's old and ugly now.

Cords, if you right-align your text, then we know something's up.

When you start off writin' in Hebrew, that's what happens.

Also on mobile, when you quote, you need to scroll down and down and down and down and down
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Re: Hi 08 Feb 2017 14:10 #305269

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cordnoy wrote on 08 Feb 2017 13:36:

Singularity wrote on 08 Feb 2017 09:16:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 18:06:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 16:30:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 15:54:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you as well recovered from porn and are now addicted to Giselle, Nicole, Cher and more.
 that is the way you allow your lust toI manifest itself right now.
And yes, you feel lousy about it for Jewish reasons.


Correction- not Cher. But otherwise, yes exactly.

Yeah she's old and ugly now.


We take exception to that.


That's not why- I think I'm just a little younger than Cords

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Workingguy wrote on 08 Feb 2017 14:10:

cordnoy wrote on 08 Feb 2017 13:36:

Singularity wrote on 08 Feb 2017 09:16:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 18:06:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 16:30:

Workingguy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 15:54:

cordnoy wrote on 07 Feb 2017 14:01:

במחילת כבוד תורתם of many of the above scholars

I have not seen one fellow on GYE because he was watching game throws of lust. The fellow you mentioned was/is here for recoveryI from porn, and his active level, which bothers him, are these series.

This entire argument smells by me. It may be true. I know little. I'm not getting involved in the issur/addict/hashemI story.  

Simply put, if you fellows would be right, GYE should be inundated with people that are addicted to all types of cable/fox shows that have half-dressed tattooed



I'll respectfully disagree- I don't look at porn as of now but give me an open computer and I'll be looking for the racy scenes from movies and cable shows, many of which are pretty explicit so maybe they are porn anyway. And it's definitely Lust- love how my autocorrect capitalizes that word- and that's one of the main things that I'm working on now.

And it's not a "normal" thing- it's because I find them stimulating and is driven by Lust. There are tons of people who are addicted to R rated Lust before it moved to x rated and they probably should be on GYE then; it's just that usually they have to cross what in their head is a red line in order to feel guilty enough to look for help.

Most of my Lust issues specifically come from that type of media.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you as well recovered from porn and are now addicted to Giselle, Nicole, Cher and more.
 that is the way you allow your lust toI manifest itself right now.
And yes, you feel lousy about it for Jewish reasons.


Correction- not Cher. But otherwise, yes exactly.

Yeah she's old and ugly now.



We take exception to that.


That's not why- I think I'm just a little younger than Cords

Maybe. He's our grandpappy.

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