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90 days to the new year. please help and join me 15 Jun 2015 21:13 #256909

Arongreen
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I did it again and again but i feel like a lot of people begging for help after falling many time.
Im now on the way to the 90 days
and would like to ask anyone that has done it and can please help me be on the same page as him
and people that didn't do it if they can please join me so we can work together

A happy year is coming for all of us
and bezchus Guarding our eyes we will have a good year

I was chating with someone on GYE and told him about my 90 days to the new year
so he told me forget about having a good year
Don't you just want to have a good day like today maybe?

yes i do
And im sure you all feel like me when you have a clean day the day is much calmer
so please help me

Last Edit: 15 Jun 2015 21:14 by Arongreen.

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 15 Jun 2015 21:19 #256910

lomed OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 307 Karma: 47	Welcome Aron Green; It is an honor to have you here with us reminding us that we need to prepare and get ready fro Rosh hashana. take it one day at a time. Keep us posted with your ups and downs. As you said have a GOOD DAY, and also a good year for this year and the coming years. Hatzlacha
	I currently attend live SA meetings. Feel free to reach out to me.

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 15 Jun 2015 22:01 #256918

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Wow thank you for that reminder! One day at a time!

Much Hatzlacha!

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--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
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Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 15 Jun 2015 22:11 #256922

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Welcome again friend.

b'hatzlachah

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Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 16 Jun 2015 02:51 #256948

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Welcome, Aron!

In case you (or anyone else) has not yet read this week's Parsha e-mail from Rabbi Twerski, it contains a very powerful message for all of us (Kedarko baKodesh).

Shelach: Believe that you CAN

By Rabbi Dr. Avraham Twerski

There were two episodes of spies sent to Canaan. Those sent by Moses resulted in a disaster from which we still suffer thousands of years later, whereas those sent by Joshua resulted in triumph. Why the radical difference?

Hashem had promised the Israelites the conquest of Canaan, but they lacked the trust and faith in Hashem. They sent the spies to see whether they were indeed capable of conquering the land. Joshua’s spies had no such doubt. They were only interested in what is the best method to achieve this.

This is a message for all time. If you question whether or not you can achieve your goal, there will be many doubts, and you may decide that you cannot do it. If you are determined that you will do it, but are just looking for the most efficient way, you will succeed.

In addiction, we cannot afford to think whether or not we can recover. There is no option. If we are determined that we will recover, and we are looking for the best way to do so, we will succeed.

Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

Last Edit: 16 Jun 2015 02:53 by kedusha.

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 21 Jun 2015 17:46 #257297

Arongreen Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 4 Karma: 1	B"H im upto level 3 already Thanks all of you for your support

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 21 Jun 2015 19:27 #257310

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Hi Aron, thanks for the update. Don't be a stranger

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 22 Jun 2015 20:02 #257396

lomed OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 307 Karma: 47	Wow! gr8, We are all happy for you that you are moving along. keep it up. keep it strong, and KEEP IT ONE DAY AT A TIME.
	I currently attend live SA meetings. Feel free to reach out to me.

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 29 Jun 2015 01:35 #258001

Arongreen Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 4 Karma: 1	B"H I HAVE REACHED Level 4 'עבד ה בשם השם נעשה ונצליח

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 29 Jun 2015 01:41 #258002

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Mazel tov!

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 29 Jun 2015 02:08 #258003

abd297 OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 282 Karma: 12	Mazel tov on your progress! Keep it up and we are here for you.
	Let Hashem Do His Job! We need to jump off the conveyor belt of life and walk on our own. You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 29 Jun 2015 19:30 #258079

lomed OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 307 Karma: 47	Mazel tov and much Hatzlacha. Keep us posted.
	I currently attend live SA meetings. Feel free to reach out to me.

Re: 90 days to the new year. please help and join me 29 Jun 2015 20:36 #258085

yiraishamaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1031 Karma: 101	Arongreen - you are on solid ground Keep up the good work- KUTGW Also always keep in mind Kedusha's post - Failure is simply not an option, the only question we ask is: Which approach will work best for me?