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I can't believe i did that... 22 May 2015 15:50 #255301

justmetoo OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 33 Karma: 5	I signed up for 90 day chart... I can't believe i did that... one day at a time right... but, but, but, I want to delete the whole thing when/(if-haha) I fail Ok, deep breaths...I can do this! Really??? A gut Yom Tov to all! Thanks for the support!

Re: I can't believe i did that... 22 May 2015 15:59 #255304

shlomo613 Current streak: 32 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 433 Karma: 27	Good Yom tov, let's both of us try this Yom tov and shabbos not to look at all the women dressed really pretty. Let's cast our eyes to the ground and in fact avoid such places if we can. Let's not say to ourselves "oh, who's that, I think I know her". Let's be such good Jews this Yom tov. And let's feel so so good about it. Cos it really does feel good afterwards. Love. Shlomo
	MY TASK: Stay connected. Listen. Post. Mussar. Pray. Don't worry. Be useful MY THREADS A Fresh Start \| My Confession \| Do you believe? MY LINKS Serenity -on addiction and SA\| Serenity's journey \| Harry's Son - by Barditchev \| A great Gibor post \| Another great Gibor post \| Dov - on honesty \| on being real

Re: I can't believe i did that... 22 May 2015 16:01 #255305

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You can do it!! And if/(hopefully not when) you fall, you don't have to delete it, you just pick up and continue where you left off. It's like if you get a flat tire on your truck, you don't have to go back home and start your trip over, you just fix it and move on.

Git Yom Tov and KO(M)T!!

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: I can't believe i did that... 22 May 2015 16:01 #255306

skeptical OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 1118 Karma: 78	Mazel Tov! May you continue to grow and take on new things to improve yourself. Hatzlacha!
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Re: I can't believe i did that... 22 May 2015 18:40 #255320

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Hatzlocha!

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My threads:
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo
"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
WDHW!!!

Re: I can't believe i did that... 22 May 2015 19:04 #255321

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Cast your eyes to the ground and daven for their well being.

Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: I can't believe i did that... 22 May 2015 19:05 #255322

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Welcome and thanks!

Re: I can't believe i did that... 26 May 2015 00:27 #255341

shlomo613 Current streak: 32 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 433 Karma: 27	JM2, How was shavu'os? Shlomo
	MY TASK: Stay connected. Listen. Post. Mussar. Pray. Don't worry. Be useful MY THREADS A Fresh Start \| My Confession \| Do you believe? MY LINKS Serenity -on addiction and SA\| Serenity's journey \| Harry's Son - by Barditchev \| A great Gibor post \| Another great Gibor post \| Dov - on honesty \| on being real

Re: I can't believe i did that... 26 May 2015 02:34 #255344

justmetoo OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 33 Karma: 5	b'H great! and you?

Re: I can't believe i did that... 26 May 2015 02:57 #255345

shlomo613
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So glad to hear. Please tell all!
Mine was good BH. Kept my eyes to myself. I stayed up shavu'os night for the first time in about six years. I was surprised that Tikun leil takes 3.5 hours (much longer than I imagined). Spent time with family and had some good cheese cake.
Went to bed 5pm today and despite my wife waking me I fell asleep again and missed mincha and hadn't learned one bit on second day Yom tov. When I woke up I did two maarivs, washed the dishes, havdala, learned an amud Gemara and now here I am on GYE.
How was yours? Tell us something good spiritually.
All the best.
Shlomo

Re: I can't believe i did that... 26 May 2015 16:06 #255392

justmetoo OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 33 Karma: 5	Thank you for sharing how your Shavuos went.

Re: I can't believe i did that... 26 May 2015 16:59 #255398

shlomo613 Current streak: 32 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 433 Karma: 27	And you?
	MY TASK: Stay connected. Listen. Post. Mussar. Pray. Don't worry. Be useful MY THREADS A Fresh Start \| My Confession \| Do you believe? MY LINKS Serenity -on addiction and SA\| Serenity's journey \| Harry's Son - by Barditchev \| A great Gibor post \| Another great Gibor post \| Dov - on honesty \| on being real