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This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 20 Apr 2015 09:15 #252646

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Hi all.

I am trying to get my life back and to be clean deep breath let the 90 days begin!

Re: This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 20 Apr 2015 21:06 #252689

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Welcome!!!

Great but maybe share what you are doing to get your life back.

The guys are great so make use of the chevrah.

looking forward to seeing you around and hearing from you!!!

Re: This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 21 Apr 2015 03:37 #252734

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Welcome, glad you're here! Your subject is, "this time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME" You want to start by getting defining what it is you will do. Because if it's conquer lust you may be barking up the wrong tree. Maybe say, I will work the steps, I will get a chaver, I will pray for God's will for me, I will build up a fellowship of chaverim, I will get on phone conferences, I will read the Big Book etc. Ask Hashem to help you do that stuff and you may be surprised when He answers.

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--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
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Re: This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 21 Apr 2015 03:50 #252737

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You'd be wise to heed to his words.

Had there been a serenity in my life, it would not have taken me as long as it did to get on the right track.

There is much to learn and gain here.
Last Edit: 21 Apr 2015 03:50 by yiraishamaim.

Re: This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 21 Apr 2015 08:28 #252760

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Thank you so much for your replies you have made amazing points.

Yesterday I listened to my first big book session I will be honest it felt really weird I cant ever imagine myself speaking up. besides for this I have taken on the 90 day chart i have filters on my computer and phone and I am going to stay clean for 90 days iyh. The question is how can you actually get rid of an addiction???

Re: This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 21 Apr 2015 13:53 #252779

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Keep doing and see what works.
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 27 Apr 2015 02:05 #253157

Hi
I also wanna. We all wanna be holy. But are we willing to do the hard work that will make us holy? Keep with the phone conferences and learn all the tools and see what works for you. My first second third fourth attempt did not work so I am continuing to up the ante of what I need to do. Just dont get discouraged if you have a setback...just get more involved and do more. You will succeed in a way you never thought possible.
I love you Wanna cause I also wanna.

Re: This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 27 Apr 2015 03:54 #253164

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Thank you

I appreciate the positive energy

Re: This time I will do it PLEASE HASHEM HELP ME 06 Sep 2018 01:48 #335336

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pischoshelmachat wrote on 27 Apr 2015 02:05:
Hi
I also wanna. We all wanna be holy. But are we willing to do the hard work that will make us holy? Keep with the phone conferences and learn all the tools and see what works for you. My first second third fourth attempt did not work so I am continuing to up the ante of what I need to do. Just dont get discouraged if you have a setback...just get more involved and do more. You will succeed in a way you never thought possible.
I love you Wanna cause I also wanna.

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