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Does this count as a fall? 01 Dec 2014 19:36 #244372

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I found myself searching online for a marginally kosher website where Jewish people discuss their s•x issues but not in the context of recovery. I found myself on a different site discussing hilchot nidda and when I realized my body was reacting I figured out that this was atzas hayetser and stopped searching. Is this considered a fall?
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Re: Does this count as a fall? 01 Dec 2014 21:06 #244375

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Don't worry about it. KOT! The more you obsess about whether it is a fall or not, the more likely you are to actually fall.

Let go of it, and move on.

Re: Does this count as a fall? 01 Dec 2014 22:16 #244383

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Hello!

I would just give my piece of advice, try to minimize surfing the net, in my case since I joined GYE 98% of my surfing time I spend here, (and even here sometimes reading certain things could be a trigger for some) the YH has many ways that he tries to entrap us we have to very awake and careful not to fall for him.

Wishing you much Hatzlacha.
הסיבה שיש דברים קשים העוברים עליך היא בגלל שהאדם חושב כי "אני עומד" שהוא מנהל הכל,
ברגע שיתן הכנעה כי השי"ת מנהיג הכל אז כבר אפשר להתמודד עם הקשיים. שמעתי מאדם גדול

If life is a LEMON make LEMONADE

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Re: Does this count as a fall? 01 Dec 2014 22:45 #244385

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I ask because I am currently building a 90 day chart

Re: Does this count as a fall? 01 Dec 2014 23:06 #244387

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safek fall lekulah! final psak! .

Really. I think being machmir leads to more "falls". Obsessing definitely leads to more falls. Give yourself a break, and KOT!

Re: Does this count as a fall? 01 Dec 2014 23:24 #244392

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מסכים
take a cup of cold water.
close the hood from ur truck
and Ki Maluchuv Yetzave Luch

Re: Does this count as a fall? 02 Dec 2014 02:33 #244398

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Gibbor you forget to say: take a deep breath!
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Re: Does this count as a fall? 03 Dec 2014 03:47 #244487

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I didn't want to steal your line

Re: Does this count as a fall? 03 Dec 2014 06:48 #244509

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Welcome,
it's only a fall if you cite the badei hashulchan's psak on the taz's BAD WORD REMOVEDah regardin' the chumrah of ...... (forgot name) in onah beinonis; otherwise - you good.

Hey, like all da fellows above wrote so eloquently - NO FALL! (as da Chinese guy always screams by da us open,,,and what da hell is up with that scream? maybe that should join the gye world council issue?)

Hey! lookin' forward to hearin' more from you.

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