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90 day journey 13 Aug 2014 00:03 #237266

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i finally made it to 90 days of being clean.during my climb i had some parts that i almost fell but i caught myself.although i noticed something strange.about every 8 to 10 days i saw keri.i usually went to the mikva the next day.i was just wondering if this was a normal occurence?

Re: 90 day journey 13 Aug 2014 00:08 #237267

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Welcome!

Great news!

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Regardin' your question, everthin' around here is normal.

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Re: 90 day journey 13 Aug 2014 00:19 #237269

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WELCOME MAX!!!!

join the club, its great to have you here!!!

Re: 90 day journey 13 Aug 2014 01:20 #237277

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Re: 90 day journey 13 Aug 2014 01:48 #237280

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welcome max.
about your question.
seeing keri is a important issue to discuss, although I not sure where and when.
two points,
a lot of seforim speak about this issue in a very negative light, I have heard from my rebeim that what has been said for one generation on this topic is not necessarily true for our generation.
there is in sefer alei shur, a clear definition of when one should be concerned about keri (chelek aleph shalosh michtavim), and one point that I feel is important to stress, that there are many times that one should not pay any attention to a keri.
this is if your question is about the religious aspect.
and as far as what is normal, in regards to addiction, I feel that if you elaborate on your question, we will understand what is bothering you.
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Re: 90 day journey 13 Aug 2014 03:09 #237291

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Welcome! Lets go for another 90!

I want to be blunt: were you actually recovering from your problems or were you just a dry drunk and whiteknuckling? if you aren't an addict, this question doesnt apply.

Anyhow, Good work and KOT!
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