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moving up 18 Feb 2013 03:07 #202378

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i have boruch hashem been on the chart for quite sometime with out masturbating, looking at pornography etc.... there have been times where i have slipped but not fallen i think i am ready to move to the next step of blocking some sites that are interesting but have questionable or more than questionable topics (i avoid them and are mostly able to navigate around them news sites or blogs) iy"h with everyones help i will be matzliach!

Re: moving up 18 Feb 2013 08:01 #202387

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Hatzlacha!

Re: moving up 19 Feb 2013 01:40 #202416

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hi beh,

Yes, making gedarim is VERY important. The seforim even say that our main bechirah in this area is making the proper gedarim. Once lust hits, it's VERY hard to overcome. A smart person avoids it in the first place.

Hatzlacha!

Re: moving up 19 Feb 2013 23:45 #202484

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hats lacha

Re: moving up 20 Feb 2013 00:44 #202493

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mr. emunah wrote:
hats lacha


Or, in English, "hats (off) to you!"
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
Last Edit: 20 Feb 2013 00:45 by gevura shebyesod.
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