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Home alone 29 Oct 2013 04:17 #222180

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Whenever my wife and children were away, either visiting my in laws, or my wife was visiting our children, I would easily resort to porn and masturbation. My wife will be away helping one of our kids with a newborn aienekel-I am determined to remain clean! I have sedarim, minyanim, work and this wonderful site to keep me busy until I leave Erev Shabbos early in the morning to join everyone for Shabbos and a sunday Bris

Re: Home alone 29 Oct 2013 04:49 #222186

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Hatzlacha and Mazel Tov!

Re: Home alone 29 Oct 2013 05:20 #222191

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Mazel Tov!!! A sach Yiddish nachas, from the baby and from yourself!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


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"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Home alone 29 Oct 2013 17:00 #222211

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mazel tov to you!
Much nachas
If you need a chat at times, let me know, or others....

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Re: Home alone 07 Nov 2013 07:05 #222953

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Thanks to all for of your Chizuk which enabled me to not only remain clean from porn and mastrubation when I was home alone for a week, but which also gave me an extra special enjoyment of the Shalom Zachor and Bris of our new grandson.

Re: Home alone 07 Nov 2013 21:01 #222970

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Hashem Should Help u, in Zchis of ur Strong will that brings you to strong actions, u should be zoiche to be a happy healthy Zeide, and u and ur Bnei Bayis shoudl see tons of Naches from this einikel and from the whole Mishpuche
...וְאִם גַּם אֶתְאַמֵּץ בְּעֵצוֹת וְתַחְבֻּלוֹת וְכָל יוֹשְׁבֵי תֵבֵל יַעַמְדוּ לִימִינִי לְהוֹשִׁיעֵנִי וְלִתְמֹךְ נַפְשִׁי, מִבַּלְעֲדֵי עֻזְּךָ וְעֶזְרָתְךָ אֵין עֶזְרָה וִישׁוּעָה...‬

מתוך תפילה נפלאה שחיבר הרה"ק רבי מאיר מאפטא זצוק"ל, בעל מחבר ספר "אור לשמים", ונדפסה בתחילת ספרו.

Re: Home alone 07 Nov 2013 22:18 #222979

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Mazal tov on the new addition to the family, and on your clean streak!

Re: Home alone 17 Nov 2013 22:49 #223493

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Mazol Tov. Maybe you should read about the mitzah of the Bris. It is very important and is directly linked to our struggle.
My Rabbi always gives me the same advice. "Be happy. The world is good. Just be happy."

Re: Home alone 18 Nov 2013 05:11 #223512

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Ain Haci Nami. Any seforim to recommend?

Re: Home alone 25 Dec 2013 06:28 #225567

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My wife is away this week helping our daughter with the aineklach. This site and the Pilpul Chaverim has kept me be Tahor in a time when I would previously engage in masturbation and resort to porn.

Re: Home alone 29 Oct 2014 01:33 #242257

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Speakin' of movies.....
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Re: Home alone 28 Dec 2014 05:13 #245900

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One again, my wife will be spending a few days with my aineklach. That used to be a way when I would go down the twin rabbit holes of porn and masturbation. B"H , this site, and the pilpul chaverim has and will BEzras HaShem continue to keep me Tahor.

Re: Home alone 28 Dec 2014 07:31 #245919

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Amen mazel tov
May you be zochech too stay clean one moment at a time for as long as your heart desires
Hashem these lustful thoughts are not mine I don't need them or want them please take them from me so I can live a happy and healthy life

Gotta roll with the punches or the punches will roll all over you

yesterday was
tomorrow will be
the only thing you can change is the moment you see

keep smiling and keep busy

"lust is fire to dynamite don't get close" from someone don't remember who

The worst thing i did to myself was lie to myself for 2 whole years

I try not to hate it takes way to much energy

Re: Home alone 28 Dec 2014 18:01 #245938

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SIB101854 - WOW
Your current streak is 512 days.
How do you do that?
 *  NO, It's not all or nothing, just every bit counts!
 *  I failed yesterday, and I might fail tomorrow. But just for today I'm going to give it a try.
 *  Being curios made me lust and get into trouble.
אָמַר רבי יוחנן: אֵבֶר קָטָן יֵשׁ לוֹ לָאָדָם, מַרְעִיבוֹ = שָׂבֵעַ, מַשְׂבִּיעוֹ = רָעֵב

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Re: Home alone 28 Dec 2014 20:22 #245945

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doingtshuva wrote:
SIB101854 - WOW
Your current streak is 512 days.
How do you do that?


One day at a time
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