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Re: 30 days..... NO WAY! Are you crazy..... 14 Nov 2024 03:11 #425063

chaimoigen Current streak: 555 days NOW ONLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1345 Karma: 134	grant400 wrote on 14 Nov 2024 02:42: Welcome! The roller coaster of pain & guilt is all too familiar to all of us. Welcome to the last chapter of your journey! KABOOM!! THE GENERAL HAS BEEN SPOTTED! PRESENT ARMS, MEN!!
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Re: 30 days..... NO WAY! Are you crazy..... 14 Nov 2024 14:53 #425098

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chaimoigen wrote on 14 Nov 2024 03:11:

grant400 wrote on 14 Nov 2024 02:42:

Welcome!

The roller coaster of pain & guilt is all too familiar to all of us. Welcome to the last chapter of your journey!

KABOOM!! THE GENERAL HAS BEEN SPOTTED! PRESENT ARMS, MEN!!

Somebody's been asleep at guard duty...uh-oh...
grant400 wrote on 04 Nov 2024 02:24:

I can't answer your first question, probably no one can actually. Forget the labels. Do what needs to get done.

Regarding the second one, It depends what you were exposed to pre marriage aside from pornography. You can very well have a beyond successful twisted mind from "basic" movies, social media and literature. Less "creative" ideas in the bedroom definitely, but the same skewed unrealistic expectations that can derail a healthy bedroom life & atmosphere.

Either way, there's only one way to fix these issues regardless of where/when/what.

Hatzlacha!

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Re: 30 days..... NO WAY! Are you crazy..... 14 Nov 2024 21:42 #425123

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All I got from this post is that your name is probably George.

Oh I also got out of it that you're an awesome guy who is gonna be flying high! (Just like in that episode with the hot air balloon. Where is this thing going.)

Welcome to the party, George!

Fantastic post and I love your description of the "magical thinking" blaming every single calamity on your penis. ~~I wish I could kill people by masturbating.~~ I strongly relate to that. Blaming myself for bad things happening, and the only way I knew how to respond to the guilt was to masturbate more, or blame myself more. Sick cycle.

When I was a young fellow, I used to think G-d punished me for porn with stomach issues. As I'm sure my fellow amateur Freudian's realize, the stomachache I got after acting out was entirely self-inflicted (no kefira intended). Ah, alas. What tangled webs we weave.

Hatzlacha and KOTACLAMAABATTDWAYHAHSA!

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Re: 30 days..... NO WAY! Are you crazy..... 14 Nov 2024 21:50 #425124

wantingbetter Current streak: 42 days OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 37 Karma: 2	Hatzlacha and KOTACLAMAABATTDWAYHAHSA! So doc that's take two KOTACLAMAABATTDWAYHAHSA and call you in the morning?

Re: 30 days..... NO WAY! Are you crazy..... 14 Nov 2024 22:03 #425125

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KeepOnTruckingAndClimbingLoftyAuspiciousMostAmbitiousAttainmentsByAlwaysThinkingToDoWhatAllYiddenHereAccomplishHashemSaveAmerica!?

Today is yesterday's tomorrow.
The yetzarim a person has the most trouble dealing with are his most powerful God-given tools for developing his potential and achieving shleimus.
In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you.
It doesn't matter how big the number is, only that today it is going up by one.

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Re: 30 days..... NO WAY! Are you crazy..... 14 Nov 2024 22:06 #425126

youknowwho OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 510 Karma: 51	Hashem Help Me wrote on 13 Nov 2024 04:20: DISCLAIMER - If you just joined GYE, the guys here are actually mentally stable and sane. Please do not be scared away. This aged well.

Re: 30 days..... NO WAY! Are you crazy..... 15 Nov 2024 01:55 #425141

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wantingbetter wrote on 14 Nov 2024 21:50:

Hatzlacha and KOTACLAMAABATTDWAYHAHSA!

So doc that's take two KOTACLAMAABATTDWAYHAHSA and call you in the morning?

Keep on trucking and climbing like a monkey after a banana and something ? I forget huh yellow hat and something else. I forget. But it was definitely super inspiring and encouraging yet also gently humorous and warmly welcoming. Probably.

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