Welcome, Guest

My struggles with kedushah.
(0 viewing) 
Welcome to our forum! Introduce yourself here (anonymously, of course) and get a warm welcome from the rest of the community!

TOPIC: My struggles with kedushah. 3020 Views

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:00 #420526

  • yitzchokm
  • Current streak: 388 days
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 675
You were given Eerie, Chaimoigen, Muttel and Hashem Help Me as mentors and ezraw as a chavrusa. Did you go anywhere with this?

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:04 #420527

not complaining about that, just expected to get more help in inyanei kedusha over here, while so far, I feel like I haven't been getting anywhere.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:07 #420528

tried reaching out to all of them. most of them didn't respond. those that did its going very slow ( they ask a question, I respond, they follow up a day later, etc.)

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:10 #420529

  • yitzchokm
  • Current streak: 388 days
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 675
Have you tried asking any of the four mentors for their phone number? It can take them time to respond this way too but it may go slightly faster.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:10 #420530

If I am not mistaken HHM aka michelgelner@gmail.com would speak on the phone if your ready to.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:15 #420531

  • yitzchokm
  • Current streak: 388 days
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 675
tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 17:04:
not complaining about that, just expected to get more help in inyanei kedusha over here, while so far, I feel like I haven't been getting anywhere.

You wrote one post about your struggles but it wasn't all that clear that you are searching for help with that on the forum. We can give you a lot of encouragement and advice if you write about your struggles. You seem to be interested in mentors and a partner instead which is fine but I think that everyone is ready to help you. It is understood that it would be easier for you to read the book with a partner. Did you reach out to ezraw and ask him whether he can learn the book with you?

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:22 #420533

  • livingagain
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 82
  • Karma: 8
tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 16:41:
I'm here because of my struggles with kedushah.
I posted here that I'm looking for help. Got a few replies. Mostly directing me to other people, who don't respond to my emails.
I mention that I have ADHD, and every thread that I've posted on blows up with suggestions, eitzos, and help.
Am I on the right site for inyanei kedusha?

Well maybe your expectations are too high. You only mention emailing. Did you try calling Michel?   Did you follow up with support asking for a mentor? Did you read the thread or the ebooks? If people are responding to your threads that’s good. The ball is in your court. You have to be willing to fight p and m. It won’t happen overnight, it may take time. Maybe your adhd wants an immediate solution to your problem which has developed over years. That is not realistic. 

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:28 #420534

  • livingagain
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 82
  • Karma: 8
tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 17:04:
not complaining about that, just expected to get more help in inyanei kedusha over here, while so far, I feel like I haven't been getting anywhere.

What type of help are you looking for exactly? if you need a mentor, ask support to match you with a mentor. There are other people who post their contact info in the threads. Did you try them? You have not articulated what you are struggling with. How can anyone help? 

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:30 #420535

  • livingagain
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 82
  • Karma: 8
tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 17:04:
not complaining about that, just expected to get more help in inyanei kedusha over here, while so far, I feel like I haven't been getting anywhere.

What kind of help are you looking for and what are you struggling with 

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:34 #420536

  • livingagain
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 82
  • Karma: 8
tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 17:07:
tried reaching out to all of them. most of them didn't respond. those that did its going very slow ( they ask a question, I respond, they follow up a day later, etc.)

What do you need help with? What’s your struggle? We can’t help without knowing the problem 

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:40 #420537

  • livingagain
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 82
  • Karma: 8
tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 17:04:
not complaining about that, just expected to get more help in inyanei kedusha over here, while so far, I feel like I haven't been getting anywhere.

Well you joined august 23rd. Which tools on the site have you accessed? What are you struggling with?
Last Edit: 01 Sep 2024 17:41 by livingagain.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:41 #420538

  • yitzchokm
  • Current streak: 388 days
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 675
Please let us know once you find a mentor and chavrusa so we know that it is settled.

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 17:54 #420540

  • livingagain
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 82
  • Karma: 8
yitzchokm wrote on 01 Sep 2024 17:41:
Please let us know once you find a mentor and chavrusa so we know that it is settled.

He has a legitimate gripe if he’s requested a mentor and not been provided with one. That is a feature offered on the site. 

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 18:02 #420541

  • livingagain
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 82
  • Karma: 8
tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 01 Sep 2024 16:55:
I have no problem waiting, but I'm starting the zman in a few days, and I'd like to get a mentor and chavrusah by then, otherwise, I'll have to wait until bein hazmanim to continue with GYE.

If you have requested a mentor and partner and have not received a response your grievance would appear to be valid. 

Re: My struggles with kedushah. 01 Sep 2024 18:23 #420545

yes, i requested a chavrusah on the partner program page
Time to create page: 0.50 seconds

Are you sure?

Yes