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Trying Hard... 21 Aug 2018 21:33 #334882

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Hi
I am an 18 year old bachur.
Been struggling with this for a long time, and have tried many times to stop
I have now joined the 90 day chart (am on day 3) and i made a tafsik Shvua
Any words of advise?

Re: Trying Hard... 21 Aug 2018 21:49 #334884

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Jersey wrote on 21 Aug 2018 21:33:
Hi
I am an 18 year old bachur.
Been struggling with this for a long time, and have tried many times to stop
I have now joined the 90 day chart (am on day 3) and i made a tafsik Shvua
Any words of advise?

Persistence hurts but it pays off.

Re: Trying Hard... 22 Aug 2018 01:28 #334894

Hi, i"m also a bochur 21 though, wish I was 18 when I started taking care of this issue...
you found the right place! Keep us posted with your daily fights and succes against the יצה"ר
Feel free to pm me, currently a lucky choson which merited to have discovered gye 1.5 years ago which BH totally changed my life from one extreme to the other!

הנותן עיניו במה שאינו שלו, מה שמבקש לא נותנים לו, ומה שבידו נוטלים ממנה

(סוטה ט, עמוד א)


ולכן אל יפול לב אדם
וכו' גם אם יהיה כן כל ימיו במלחמה זו כי אולי לכך נברא וזאת עבודתו לאכפיא לס"א תמיד 
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Re: Trying Hard... 22 Aug 2018 02:00 #334898

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Keep posting. Connection with successful guys in recovery is very helpful. Have hatzlocha!
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned

                    My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE
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