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Trying Hard... 21 Aug 2018 21:33 #334882

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Hi
I am an 18 year old bachur.
Been struggling with this for a long time, and have tried many times to stop
I have now joined the 90 day chart (am on day 3) and i made a tafsik Shvua
Any words of advise?

Re: Trying Hard... 21 Aug 2018 21:49 #334884

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Jersey wrote on 21 Aug 2018 21:33:
Hi
I am an 18 year old bachur.
Been struggling with this for a long time, and have tried many times to stop
I have now joined the 90 day chart (am on day 3) and i made a tafsik Shvua
Any words of advise?

Persistence hurts but it pays off.

Re: Trying Hard... 22 Aug 2018 01:28 #334894

Hi, i"m also a bochur 21 though, wish I was 18 when I started taking care of this issue...
you found the right place! Keep us posted with your daily fights and succes against the יצה"ר
Joined as a single bochur, Bh broke free (but still on watch) by using the tools on this website, therapy but mainly through getting married. 

הנותן עיניו במה שאינו שלו, מה שמבקש לא נותנים לו, ומה שבידו נוטלים ממנה

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Re: Trying Hard... 22 Aug 2018 02:00 #334898

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Keep posting. Connection with successful guys in recovery is very helpful. Have hatzlocha!
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