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Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 14 Aug 2018 06:23 #334634

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Just getting started anybody there

Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 14 Aug 2018 10:04 #334636

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Clearandhappy wrote on 14 Aug 2018 06:23:
Just getting started anybody there

Hello

Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 14 Aug 2018 14:44 #334651

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Welcome! This is a wonderful place filled with people looking to grow and use this tremendous nisayon to elevate themselves. Please take advantage of the wonderful resources that this site has to offer. My recommendation to you is to avoid triggers for acting out and proactively working on what may be causing you to act out. Please stay connected and feel free to reach out! Hatzlacha Rabbah!

Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 14 Aug 2018 20:02 #334667

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Phill Up wrote on 14 Aug 2018 14:44:
Welcome! This is a wonderful place PHilled with people looking to grow and use this tremendous nisayon to elevate themselves. Please take advantage of the wonderful resources that this site has to offer. My recommendation to you is to avoid triggers for acting out and proactively working on what may be causing you to act out. Please stay connected and feel free to reach out! Hatzlacha Rabbah!

FTFY 
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



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Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 14 Aug 2018 20:37 #334670

Welcome on board clearandhappy, im also a bochur, discovered gye two months ago and bh im clean 65 days, stick around, post your story and you'll get tips and help from others.
Feel free to pm me, currently a lucky choson which merited to have discovered gye 1.5 years ago which BH totally changed my life from one extreme to the other!

הנותן עיניו במה שאינו שלו, מה שמבקש לא נותנים לו, ומה שבידו נוטלים ממנה

(סוטה ט, עמוד א)


ולכן אל יפול לב אדם
וכו' גם אם יהיה כן כל ימיו במלחמה זו כי אולי לכך נברא וזאת עבודתו לאכפיא לס"א תמיד 
(תניא פ"כז)

Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 15 Aug 2018 02:11 #334677

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Welcome. It should be with hatzlocha.
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned

                    My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 17 Aug 2018 05:20 #334750

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Thanx everybody for answering feel right at home

Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 17 Aug 2018 05:35 #334751

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I'm an 18 yr old bachur on the outside I seem not only regular yeshivish but more I am "chall" in yeshiva have a chashuve bachur and bh I really am except I have this problem anybody in the same boat as me?

Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 17 Aug 2018 09:30 #334757

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Clearandhappy wrote on 17 Aug 2018 05:35:
I'm an 18 yr old bachur on the outside I seem not only regular yeshivish but more I am "chall" in yeshiva have a chashuve bachur and bh I really am except I have this problem anybody in the same boat as me?

I think that's pretty typical. I think the same mindset that keeps people on the straight and narrow makes the desire irresistible when you are exposed to porn. So they tend to go together.

Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 19 Aug 2018 22:31 #334812

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Many many bochurim, including those that are referred to as choshuv, struggle with this issue. I suffered terribly at your age and I was the "apple of my rebbi's eye". There was no GYE back then, no one to talk to. It was absolute gehennom. I felt like a two faced hypocrite..... BH you have who to share with and hear that lots of wonderful ehrliche people have a really challenging time with this. BH you can get better like so many others here.
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Re: Saying hello from yeshiva bachur 20 Aug 2018 04:47 #334832

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Wow that feels really good.thanx
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