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Re: It's a never ending cycle 26 Dec 2017 11:36 #324198

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cordnoy wrote on 25 Dec 2017 23:23:

Attempt to change wrote on 25 Dec 2017 17:50:
Hello Chevrah, I haven't logged in here for a while. I'm still in yeshiva and my friend put a internet block on my phone so I don't have access to safari to log in here. I got it unblocked for a few minutes now. Thank you for all the
wonderful advice, I have been thinking more and more about going to see someone. I have been continuing to see women the past few months and I've developed a sort of disensitivity towards sex and it's true beauty. I look at it as something I fulfill and do without any lasting pleasure. I cut down to one dating app and I also gave my phone to my roommate for two weeks at one point and I was really learning well thankfully. He gave my phone back for the weekend and I started messaging the women again and meeting some. I'd say it's more of something like sex once every two or theee weeks now. I know I need to see a therapist, I just don't know of anyone trustworthy enough of this secret. Any suggestions on who do go see or call? 

If you trusted those women with the guy below your belt, why wouldn't you trust a woman with the guy above your shoulders?

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Re: It's a never ending cycle 26 Dec 2017 14:25 #324201

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JUST GET HELP! THIS WILL NOT GO AWAY BY ITSELF!

Re: It's a never ending cycle 26 Dec 2017 15:07 #324206

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My friend,

I totally get that you may be feeling stuck and don’t know how to turn to. But the bottom line is that this is killing you- you’re having sex not infrequently with strangers. And like learning and going to Yeshiva.

I can’t imagine what this does to your insides, and it is so risky for so many reasons. How can we help you make some moves on this?

Re: It's a never ending cycle 28 Dec 2017 17:22 #324365

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Hi A.T.C.
​i'm already married and it didn't fix any of my problems
in fact everytime i'm trying to increase sex, or my pleasure in sex, it's only getting worse.
i also tried to speak to a rabbi, and he didn't understand me. 
he asked me, why couldn't you just stop?
​so i told him i am the best stopper, i stopped already 200 times.
so he asked me, why couldn't you just stop once forever?  
so it depends which rabbi you are going
​i personally think that you need the 12 step program, Live SA,
​the 12 step program is so useful and a good life changer for everybody
but for us addicts, hashem created our first step, so we don't have any other choice.
it's a gift special for the gye chabura  
Hatzlacha
  

Re: It's a never ending cycle 31 Dec 2017 06:56 #324464

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hi , i wish you tons of hatzlacha , IN ADDITION to getting the help that you desperatly need , therapists   maybe even medication that will take the edge off the ta`ava , keep on davening  AND learning mussar, but learn mussar with the attitude that if i veer  from whats written here ...IM DEAD!!! dont give up, YOU WILL GET OUT OF IT!!  you have a holy neshama! please get help!im sure  there is someone that you can open to, and trust .we know from the fact that youre writting here shows that you want to stop, Hashem should  send that shliach very soon , keep on posting here . hatzlacha!

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                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Re: It's a never ending cycle 31 Dec 2017 07:01 #324465

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i dont know the number , but isnt there an anonymous phone number to an organaztion in Israel that helps out bachurim  who are in such trouble? ask people that you know that you need it for a "friend" let them think what they want.

לב  טהור   ברא   לי   אלקים , ורוח  נכון    חדש  בקרבי

  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

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