Sadly my whole yeshiva knows... never knew guys so talkativ☺ iv spoken 2 quite a few guys, but not the guys in worried about being embarrassed b4, I.e. the guys with heads on their shoulders who aren't going 2 day a stupid coment. I am extremely desperate 2 stop because it is slowly taking over and reuaning my life.... kit

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 07 Feb 2017 08:29:

Is this the one you meant:

What I said above is still applicable. You need to make a neder that every time you are mzl you will give $20 to tsedaka. The reason for the high kenas is because mzl is punishable with karet and I don't think karet is the same price as $20. For every inappropriate sentence you tell your friends you should give $5. You have to trick your brain into viewing these things as bad and costly instead of the good that your brain thinks you receive from them now. These kenasim will help you, but don't give up because most people have to go through this. 

Secondly, you should frequent the mikveh. The mikveh will help you clear your mind and heart from the tumah and will help you grow. 

Hatzlacha! Keep us updated
Also, if your friends are not religious or are a bad influence you will need to tell them that you don't want to talk about these matters with them or you will have to distance your relationship with them.

wats the problem???

nope i don't text at all really

yes that's the one thanks: this line particularly  
Secondly, you should frequent the mikveh. The mikveh will help you clear your mind and heart from the tumah and will help you grow. 
going to the mikva might be nice or not but where does it say anything like this and is it guaranteed?? I'm sure the poster is just saying what works for him, personally it means nothig to me and i try to go erev shabbos (for the neshama y'saira thing) but that's it.
also i think this is talked about at length in this thread Tikun Haklali & Mikva.

Another point about the Taphsic thingy
​I don't remember where I read this (maybe markz or cordnoy can quote it) but there are those that strongly feel that if it doesn't help after trying it once (maybe twice) ditch it

sorry that it seems like the embarrassment is looking like it is not going to be easy but we are here for you 
Really getting chizuk from the great attitude keep it up 

Nice New pic.... why??
I dunno about mikva, personally im only a 2 day mikva jew, maybe I should give it a try more often....
I will let you know how the embarrassment goes when I get online after going back 2 yeshiva, I actually discussed it today with my therapist.
happy 2 b giving you chizuk!!!!!! Isn't that the main point of this furom???☺
kit

Yitzk wrote on 07 Feb 2017 19:11:

Fantastic

Yitzk wrote on 07 Feb 2017 23:53:


What new pic?

Hey Yitzk what is going on haven't heard much recently 
hope you are faring well in recovery please give an update when you feel ready to 
we are still here for you

BH going amazing!!!!!!!

Please share we all get chizuk 

I have had some really big tayvus but managed to hold myself back, sometimes had to physically restrain myself but amazingly I succeeded!!!!!! At times of lust iv had the 90 day chart in my mind, using it as something to aim towards and b h it worked

AWESOME
KOMT

Excuse my ignorance but what is komt?

Keep On Monster Trucking

Loving the progress! Keep peeking in on GYE every now and then. We miss you.