Yeah i guess that is partly the cause... Or the drive....
committed to change! wrote:
And now we're a day after the disagreement and she's still giving silent treatment and avoiding me touching her or anything. She is pretty good at the whole silent treatment thing and can do it for a couple of weeks straight although to be fair she has been trying to work on that a little lately.
Problem is, i end up rationalising saying that if ur not interested them I'll just ' take care' of myself
Is it possible that when intimate with your wife it's also from the view of
"I'll take care of myself"?
Perhaps you meant to say that your Shalom bayit puts you in a bad mood, and it's the bad mood that 'compels' you to look for an outlet, and therefore acting out is the result?
Hatzlacha
