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Re: lost in France ! 30 Apr 2015 12:21 #253548

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You have mentioned one of your triggers, weekends and nights, you have identified one area that needs change, now it's time for the next step.......HOW?


My only chance to be happy, that prevents me to be in difficulty in these moments, is to study Torah. The last time I were clean, thanks TaPhSiC Method, it was because I studied Torah all the time.

I ask Hashem to help me to be always in the study of Its Torah !

Re: lost in France ! 30 Apr 2015 18:01 #253571

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Hey Shlomo,

I was in no way disagreeing, I wrote specifically that both are very important, but they are both important, and I have found that one without the other does not usually lead anywhere very far. There are exceptions, but that is my experience with most of the people that I know.

bneisrael555 wrote:
My only chance to be happy, that prevents me to be in difficulty in these moments, is to study Torah. The last time I were clean, thanks TaPhSiC Method, it was because I studied Torah all the time.

I ask Hashem to help me to be always in the study of Its Torah !


Sounds good!!

So what's the plan? What part of Torah? How will you set guidelines that you won't cut back on?

You can do it, and you are worth it!!!
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Re: lost in France ! 01 May 2015 09:53 #253640

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Hi Pidaini,

B''H, I'm studying daf hayomi of Michna Beroura with "Dirshu Halakha", Michna Kedouchine, and Guemara Baba Metsia.

My plan (with help of Hashem !) :
- Torah, pray God, work on 12 steps, participate to this forum and SA meetings;
- divorce and create a new family with lot of children (I'm 40 years old and I have no child yet because my ex wife can't..)

Big new : it's not official yet, but we will create a french phone meeting as part of GYE (so just for Jewish people).

I'm so happy !!

Chabbat Chalom

Re: lost in France ! 07 May 2015 08:10 #254097

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Hello !

1 week clean !

TaPhSiC Method is very efficient, I feel free even though I know that I will always be an sexaholic and that I have to work on my self all my life to stay clean.

The big thing that has changed in my life is that I've made the decision to divorce. As long as I was in the doubt, I was sad and depressed.
B''H my sponsor helped me to made A decision and stand firm on this. He said me that what ever the decision I'll make, God will be with me and help me.

Re: lost in France ! 07 May 2015 15:14 #254107

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