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help me 12 Apr 2015 06:53 #252073

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Hi
i just joined gye after something bad happened to me. I was constantly seeing bad things and after about 10 minutes i reminded myself the yetzer hora got to me. One day, it really took advantage of me and i was motzi zera. I then realized something was wrong and i decided i wanted to join GYE. I felt so much guilt how Hashem would forgive me especially that i am a frum bochur. Someone please help. I dont know how Hashem would forgive me for this terribe sin

Re: help me 12 Apr 2015 08:33 #252077

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Welcome!!!

Relax take a chill brother!!!

stay in touch and make yourself at home there is tons to learn here.

Hatzlachah!!!

Re: help me 12 Apr 2015 09:12 #252078

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Welcome! You've come to the right place. Hashem can forgive anyone who does Teshuva.

I like that you have been able to stop yourself after 10 minutes. Keep up the good work of stopping the Yetzer Hara, and see if you can do it faster, and to outsmart him.
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Re: help me 12 Apr 2015 14:14 #252084

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dshac wrote:
Hi
i just joined gye after something bad happened to me. I was constantly seeing bad things and after about 10 minutes i reminded myself the yetzer hora got to me. One day, it really took advantage of me and i was motzi zera. I then realized something was wrong and i decided i wanted to join GYE. I felt so much guilt how Hashem would forgive me especially that i am a frum bochur. Someone please help. I dont know how Hashem would forgive me for this terribe sin


Welcome

Was this your only time?
first time?
If yes, then my advice is to close this site and learn some mussar or talk to aRebbe, Rav or parent.

If it has happened many times, let us know please.

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Re: help me 12 Apr 2015 14:15 #252085

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EyesAnon wrote:
Welcome! You've come to the right place. Hashem can forgive anyone who does Teshuva.

I like that you have been able to stop yourself after 10 minutes. Keep up the good work of stopping the Yetzer Hara, and see if you can do it faster, and to outsmart him.


Good luck outsmartin' the yetzer hara....let us know how that works out.
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Re: help me 12 Apr 2015 16:43 #252103

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Hashem loves you dshac! He is also very forgiving and His forgiveness and compassion are limitless. We are human beings and are fallible. That's the way our Father in heaven made us and that's the way He wants it. The important thing now is to daven to Hashem that He show you what his Will is for you and go and go and fulfill it! He is eagerly awaiting your return, of that we can all insure you!

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Re: help me 12 Apr 2015 16:55 #252105

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Warm greetings to you dshac.
The first thing to learn here at The forum is that we must be open and clear about our situation. I am sure you are an honest guy and the fact you have chosen to come on board and post on the forum is a sign of courage and intelligence. However, we need more info-if as Cordnoy asked this is your first time then you are better off with some mussar/ a good shmone esrei and a shmuz by a rebbe. Don't come on to GYE - the heavy artillery unless you unfortunately need it. Hatzlocho Rabbah!
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