I have learned to accept that there is no CORRECT way to do this. I believe that the only thing that can keep me on the track of recovery is Hashem and the only way I can receive his gift is by rigorously working the 12 Steps of SA and by completely (with no reservation) accepting what I am told by my sponsor. Questioning, negotiating, thinking for myself and arguing are forms of the same logic that got me into this mess in the first place and so I had to stop doing that. However, if someone else has a different way and it works for them I wish them the best.

Oh, I thought you were saying that you were rejecting what they said because you didn't agree with it.  I meant that you should discuss it with them, and eventually there's hope you'd come to understand them better and accept it.

But this is something completely different.  If you're willing to just follow the program that's great.