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Elul zman 16 Aug 2023 00:59 #399898

Yitz18 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 18 Karma: 1	Shalom rabbosai- I'm coming off a really bad bein hazmanim, with a lot of falls. I am going to a new yeshiva this zman and really need to make sure that I don't start these bein hazmanim habits there. I really hope I can succeed. That is all.

Re: Elul zman 16 Aug 2023 01:44 #399899

redfaced Current streak: 540 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1066 Karma: 51	Hatzlocha rabba! Maybe consider an accountability partner.
	May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career Feel free to send me an owl, a howler, or even a Crumple-Horned Snorkack to Iamredfaced@gmail.com The Red Face

Re: Elul zman 16 Aug 2023 19:46 #399969

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Welcome to the family! Redfaced hit the nail on the head, and don't forget to look around here. There are many skills to learn in the flight to freedom program, and there's so much to learn from the oilam here, so spend most of your time and energy learning, and when you have 2 minutes to spare come here and learn how you can also break free! Keep posting my friend...and don't ever forget to keep trucking!

Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com

Re: Elul zman 18 Aug 2023 18:15 #400073

eccentriccomposer Current streak: 299 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 29	Hatzlacha Rabba in yeshivah, we're all rooting for you!
	I am not active on the forums anymore so much, but I check my email daily, please reach out to me! Feel free to message me if you need anything, I'll try to respond as soon as I can. I hope I can help! Email: eccentriccomposer01@gmail.com Eccentric Trip to Freedom Daily Dose

Re: Elul zman 20 Aug 2023 18:31 #400139

true_self Current streak: 42 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 528 Karma: 16	Much hatzlacha and don't let the bein hazmanim experience ruin your new zman, the best teshuvah is to go ahead and to good stuff. We are all looking forward for good news from you, stay strong!!!
	My thread: From two identities to True self If you want to reachout to me to talk please email: wish2banonym@gmail.com

Re: Elul zman 05 Sep 2023 21:23 #400880

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I came across a nice story about Teshuva from ר נפתלי טרופ the Rosh Yeshiva of Radin. A Bal Darshen once spoke to the bucherim a scary shiur about Teshuva and other stuff. When the bucherim told the Rosh Yeshiva that they are scared from this derusha he told them the following story.

There was once a ship sailing through the sea on a long journey. At some point the captain realized that the compass is out of order and is not showing them accurate navigation. They were completely lost and felt helpless. They announced on the ship if anyone knows how to fix a compass, and to their great luck there was an engineer who was able to fix it. The second they had it back on the crew relaxed and the captain announced, “our journey might take longer that originally planned, but we are on back on track and we will reach our destination”.

Teshuva is just fixing the compass. Once we have a well working compass, we might still have long journey ahead but we are in the right direction and with hashem’s help we will reach our destination.

Re: Elul zman 06 Sep 2023 18:19 #400912

bright Current streak: 74 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 617 Karma: 23	Yes we learn from the ben sorrer umorrer that is punished bec he is headed to bad stuff. Certainly, when it comes to midda tova, Hashem rewards us based on the end result
	Nothing good grows in the dark.

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