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The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 23 Aug 2020 22:22 #354116

O.K. so hear me out.

I've been toying around with the idea about making a zechus Yeshuas thread. We all know just how much Hashem appreciates our struggle. He looks down on GYE with such pride. I have no doubt it is one of the biggest kiddush Hashem's in the world.

Here's another thing. Klal Yisroel has a lot of tzores. Illnesses. Shidduch crisis. Marriage issues. People who need children. You name it. I think we can all think of someone who needs a yeshuah. 

So I was thinking, maybe we can start a yeshuah zechus thread. Here one user writes the name of someone who needs a yeshuah. And another who is about to fall stops himself - be it for a day, hour, minute or second - and dedicates the zechus to this person, that they should merit the yeshuah they need. 

I was planning on implementing this for a few days. Just today, I saw a post where someone wrote they do this themselves. Seems to help him. I figured I'd spread the idea.

If this is a bad idea for any reason, let me know and I can delete the thread. But I figured it makes sense - it may help us hold off to help others, and may well help klal yisroel as well.

Just trying to give Hashem some nachas. Let me know what you think.

יהי רצון שהדברים לתועלת

Today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can do what others can't.
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.
We all make choices in life, but in the end, our choices make us.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 24 Aug 2020 00:15 #354118

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In theory it's a great idea. Kudos to you. But won't this affect anonymity? Posting the name of someone you know can lead to problems. Maybe it can be done without the name.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 24 Aug 2020 11:26 #354137

Grant400 wrote on 24 Aug 2020 00:15:
In theory it's a great idea. Kudos to you. But won't this affect anonymity? Posting the name of someone you know can lead to problems. Maybe it can be done without the name.

Thanks.

I figured if someone writes the first name with the mothers name it would be pretty hard to guess who it was. But if its better we could do without names. Or someone can choose whether to write a name, or make up a name. It can be played around with.

יהי רצון שהדברים לתועלת

Today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can do what others can't.
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.
We all make choices in life, but in the end, our choices make us.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 25 Aug 2020 20:15 #354187

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I am for this.
Dear brothers you don't need to know my name to pray for me.
I need a bracha for Parnassa.
I recently finished my degree and I need help to continue and a brocho to get in to grad school. So wherever you are in the world please daven for my username "EYES" Hashem knows who that is. 

Thanks everyone and may we be zoche to post good news on this forum.
Last Edit: 25 Aug 2020 23:25 by eyes.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 26 Aug 2020 19:59 #354254

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eyes wrote on 25 Aug 2020 20:15:
I am for this.
Dear brothers you don't need to know my name to pray for me.
I need a bracha for Parnassa.
I recently finished my degree and I need help to continue and a brocho to get in to grad school. So wherever you are in the world please daven for my username "EYES" Hashem knows who that is. 

Thanks everyone and may we be zoche to post good news on this forum.

I like this, Hashem knows who we all are and we can daven for each other.
May we all have siyata dishmaya in everything.
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Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 31 Aug 2020 10:36 #354404

O.K. here goes.

My sister is in shidduchim, Baruch Hashem. She's only just started really although nothing yet has taken off. But if anyone has an urge and resists, can he maybe think that the sister of ITK should have clarity in shidduchim, speedily meet her bashert, and have a fantastic marriage filled with nachas form children and every beracha. And so may it be for everyone in klal yisroel.

Thank you all.

יהי רצון שהדברים לתועלת

Today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can do what others can't.
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.
We all make choices in life, but in the end, our choices make us.
Last Edit: 31 Aug 2020 10:37 by Im Tevakshena Kakasef.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 31 Aug 2020 11:58 #354407

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Im Tevakshena Kakasef wrote on 31 Aug 2020 10:36:
O.K. here goes.

My sister is in shidduchim, Baruch Hashem. She's only just started really although nothing yet has taken off. But if anyone has an urge and resists, can he maybe think that the sister of ITK should have clarity in shidduchim, speedily meet her bashert, and have a fantastic marriage filled with nachas form children and every beracha. And so may it be for everyone in klal yisroel.

Thank you all.

Amen! will do.
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Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 31 Aug 2020 21:52 #354429

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Oh my goodness! I think this is a beautiful idea. I can't think of a better "tefillah" for these people than from someone fighting their teva in this area. Personally, this kind of motivation would be really effective for me when I'm feeling "wobbly".

Here's a few:
A. bat Y.
M. bat E.
C. bat E.
D. bat L.
A. ben E.
A. ben E. (not a repeat)
E. bat T.
I. bat D.

Please have these people in mind and post names of your own. Despite being initials, each of these people has a name, a face, a family, a tzar, and a story. Maybe we can get a long list of people going and cross them out as we overcome. And then do it again.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 31 Aug 2020 22:46 #354437

wilnevergiveup wrote on 31 Aug 2020 11:58:

Im Tevakshena Kakasef wrote on 31 Aug 2020 10:36:
O.K. here goes.

My sister is in shidduchim, Baruch Hashem. She's only just started really although nothing yet has taken off. But if anyone has an urge and resists, can he maybe think that the sister of ITK should have clarity in shidduchim, speedily meet her bashert, and have a fantastic marriage filled with nachas form children and every beracha. And so may it be for everyone in klal yisroel.

Thank you all.

Amen! will do.

Thank you. Thank you so much.

And Aaron, thanks as well. for both the support and the great contribution to our list. May all the troubles of these people be sorted out speedily and for the good.

May G-d bless you all.

יהי רצון שהדברים לתועלת

Today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can do what others can't.
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.
We all make choices in life, but in the end, our choices make us.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 01 Sep 2020 00:23 #354442

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Im Tevakshena Kakasef wrote on 23 Aug 2020 22:22:
O.K. so hear me out.

I've been toying around with the idea about making a zechus Yeshuas thread. We all know just how much Hashem appreciates our struggle. He looks down on GYE with such pride. I have no doubt it is one of the biggest kiddush Hashem's in the world.

Here's another thing. Klal Yisroel has a lot of tzores. Illnesses. Shidduch crisis. Marriage issues. People who need children. You name it. I think we can all think of someone who needs a yeshuah. 

So I was thinking, maybe we can start a yeshuah zechus thread. Here one user writes the name of someone who needs a yeshuah. And another who is about to fall stops himself - be it for a day, hour, minute or second - and dedicates the zechus to this person, that they should merit the yeshuah they need. 

I was planning on implementing this for a few days. Just today, I saw a post where someone wrote they do this themselves. Seems to help him. I figured I'd spread the idea.

If this is a bad idea for any reason, let me know and I can delete the thread. But I figured it makes sense - it may help us hold off to help others, and may well help klal yisroel as well.

Just trying to give Hashem some nachas. Let me know what you think.

I’m going to go a little off the thread: There is a site called http://davenforme.org/ and they do a very similar program. However I think this a great idea and we should definitely continue this thread here on GYE and a list of initials would be a great idea. 
Your best teacher for success is your last mistake
Last Edit: 01 Sep 2020 00:25 by Meyer M..

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 01 Sep 2020 18:34 #354481

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Im Tevakshena Kakasef wrote on 31 Aug 2020 10:36:
O.K. here goes.

My sister is in shidduchim, Baruch Hashem. She's only just started really although nothing yet has taken off. But if anyone has an urge and resists, can he maybe think that the sister of ITK should have clarity in shidduchim, speedily meet her bashert, and have a fantastic marriage filled with nachas form children and every beracha. And so may it be for everyone in klal yisroel.

Thank you all.

I davened yesterday that your sister should meet the right person, in the right place, at the right time, and be given the wisdom to see it. Hashem should give her bashert the koach to overcome his yetzer hara and to be the best husband towards her. They should be blessed to raise righteous children who will help bring the geulah.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 01 Sep 2020 18:37 #354482

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There is a choleh I have in mind for today, but please post more "names".

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 09 Sep 2020 12:18 #354805

I kind of left this thread dead in the water, and shouldn't have. 

To let you know, I'm struggling with taiva today. A lot of it. So here goes.

A bat Y. Whoever and wherever you are, whatever yeshua you need, may Hashem grant it speedily and for the good. May you be saved from this, and any further, sorrow or pain.

This is bezeshus I go viter, not pondering too much on my taiva, not fantasizing, and for sure not falling, for the duration of the day.

Hatzlocha all.

יהי רצון שהדברים לתועלת

Today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can do what others can't.
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.
We all make choices in life, but in the end, our choices make us.

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 09 Sep 2020 17:50 #354830

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Im Tevakshena Kakasef wrote on 09 Sep 2020 12:18:
I kind of left this thread dead in the water, and shouldn't have. 

To let you know, I'm struggling with taiva today. A lot of it. So here goes.

A bat Y. Whoever and wherever you are, whatever yeshua you need, may Hashem grant it speedily and for the good. May you be saved from this, and any further, sorrow or pain.

This is bezeshus I go viter, not pondering too much on my taiva, not fantasizing, and for sure not falling, for the duration of the day.

Hatzlocha all.

A bat Y is a lucky person.  And she'll have no clue. 

Re: The Zechus - Yeshua's Project 10 Sep 2020 00:18 #354853

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This is a really beautiful idea. Really like it 
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