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Re: Struggling. 16 Oct 2018 19:53 #336301

Imyh the wedding is in 2 weeks !

Re: Strugglin 16 Oct 2018 20:09 #336304

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Hashem_echad wrote on 16 Oct 2018 19:37:
Also I would add that bh. We have a great relationship so far. And i am very excited to grow with her and build a family with her I highly respect her and care about her , in a non sexual way. This isn't a situation wher I'm just excited for the wedding night.  Just wanted to clarify. 

You are better off than I was then.

Re: Strugglin 16 Oct 2018 22:18 #336305

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There is nothing wrong with telling the kallah "Please let's save these discussions for marriage. Maybe you are not aware but discussing these inyonimpose challenges for boys. Don't worry, i am really looking forward, but all in the proper time. i really appreciate your understanding". May your chasuna be b'sha'ah tova umutzlachas! May Hashem bless you with building a home that is kadosh, geshmak, healthy, and full of zeesa kinderlach!
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Re: Struggling. 16 Oct 2018 23:15 #336306

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Hashem_echad wrote on 16 Oct 2018 19:53:
Imyh the wedding is in 2 weeks !

Get a shomer for the next two weeks then?

Re: Struggling. 17 Oct 2018 01:36 #336315

What do you mean?

Re: Struggling. 17 Oct 2018 03:50 #336319

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Hashem_echad wrote on 17 Oct 2018 01:36:
What do you mean?

Stay by someone for two weeks so you are never alone.

Re: Struggling. 22 Oct 2018 19:29 #336527

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Usually that recurring thought is what makes us crash. Keep connected with the oilam here. The chizuk is incredible.

Yea, i never really believed it till recently. I was so convinced that is not the case and there's no way i cannot go for more than a few days. Now i've realized it's more emotional and psychological than anything else. 
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