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Re: Hey not sure what to do 17 Aug 2016 23:02 #294025

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seichel wrote on 17 Aug 2016 22:00:
No not wife. And the situation is being worked on. They want to quit job, she doesn't like it.  It's too crazy hours for her. Once we can get her set up w something more steady I think half the problem is solved. I was seeking input what to do in the meantime 


Seichel,
Let's try this slowly; we all went to understand and I'm not sure if you're shy or ashamed, or if you have a hard time articulating yourself.

So here's a few questions that I'd love you to answer if you can.

1) Who is this relationship with? Girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé, spouse?

2) Are you having sexual relations with his person?

3) Is the porn to replace the sex (if there is any) or their presence?

Re: Hey not sure what to do 18 Aug 2016 20:56 #294108

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Workingguy wrote on 17 Aug 2016 23:02:

seichel wrote on 17 Aug 2016 22:00:
No not wife. And the situation is being worked on. They want to quit job, she doesn't like it.  It's too crazy hours for her. Once we can get her set up w something more steady I think half the problem is solved. I was seeking input what to do in the meantime 


Seichel,
Let's try this slowly; we all went to understand and I'm not sure if you're shy or ashamed, or if you have a hard time articulating yourself.

So here's a few questions that I'd love you to answer if you can.

1) Who is this relationship with? Girlfriend, boyfriend, fiancé, spouse?

2) Are you having sexual relations with his person?

3) Is the porn to replace the sex (if there is any) or their presence?

Seichel,
To be honest I'm much more concerned about your partner which is not your wife, than your porn usage.
feel free to share. we are not here to judge just to help.
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Re: Hey not sure what to do 19 Aug 2016 03:29 #294141

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seichel wrote on 17 Aug 2016 22:00:
No not wife. And the situation is being worked on. They want to quit job, she doesn't like it.  It's too crazy hours for her. Once we can get her set up w something more steady I think half the problem is solved. I was seeking input what to do in the meantime 

seichel wrote on 18 Aug 2016 15:59:
Just like how not to use p--- as a substitute for being w my boyfriend. He works crazy hours so it's hard to get time in w him
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

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