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30 days 13 Mar 2015 00:10 #250426

chizukmachine Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 30 Karma: 0	Hi All. Not able to hit ninety days: way too high. I want to start with thirty as of tomorrow. Anyone want to start with me? We can post along the way: every day. Let me know if your in!!! Would be helpful to me to have a partner or two that are struggling as well and would want to hit a holy thirty!!
	Last Edit: 13 Mar 2015 00:11 by chizukmachine.

Re: 30 days 13 Mar 2015 04:49 #250434

GYEmember Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 81 Karma: 5	Welcome! I'm in, but let us take it one day at a time, with 30 days as an incentive to help us along.

Re: 30 days 13 Mar 2015 04:53 #250435

yiraishamaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1030 Karma: 101	Good luck to you both

Re: 30 days 13 Mar 2015 11:47 #250447

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Re: 30 days 13 Mar 2015 15:33 #250456

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Make a daily email group!

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Re: 30 days 13 Mar 2015 16:30 #250460

chizukmachine
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So: i agree we should take it one day at a time: but there has to be some king of overarching goal no? some day's i'm not confronted with the nisayon: and some days yes: so on days were I am: having an overarching goal should be helpful: don't think we're disagreeing, i guess it's just a matter of where the focus should be: on the one or on the thirty. Each day I'm successful is a great day. Thirty successful day's is off the charts: no pun intended. So today's day one . . . let's make it a great one!

Re: 30 days 13 Mar 2015 16:30 #250461

Jay-jay OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 1 Karma: 0	Alright. Starting tomorrow... I guess I'm in...

Re: 30 days 13 Mar 2015 16:34 #250464

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chizukmachine wrote:

the overarchin' goal is life.

Focus on the white lines before you; not those that are beyond the bend.

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Re: 30 days 13 Mar 2015 21:33 #250477

chizukmachine Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 30 Karma: 0	Alright! So we have three people in this: me; Jay-jay and GYEMember. I'm counting on you guys to help me through this: as well as help you guys as well.

Re: 30 days 14 Mar 2015 22:57 #250489

ineedchizuk Current streak: 13 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 300 Karma: 21	Shalom aleichem, Jay Jay, gyemember, and chizuk machine (the last one sounds vaguely familiar) Much hatzlacha on your 30 day 1momentsatatime challenge!
	Last Edit: 14 Mar 2015 23:00 by ineedchizuk. Reason: lama lo?

Re: 30 days 15 Mar 2015 01:31 #250499

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Nc, think your chizuk needs can be somewhat alleviated if we hook you up to the chizuk machine?

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Re: 30 days 15 Mar 2015 01:32 #250500

chizukmachine Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 30 Karma: 0	Thank you ineedchizuk!! so do we all!! today is day two. What's crazy about the internet is that there are so many triggers: even if going on a seemingly innocent website: a slight picture can be a trigger: kind of like walking in the street and seeing a woman inadvertantley: it's kind of not fair: but today's day two: an easier day since it's shabbos: but one day at a time: so let's go!!

Re: 30 days 17 Mar 2015 21:12 #250701

chizukmachine Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 30 Karma: 0	So: how's everyone who committed doing? any updates??

Re: 30 days 20 Mar 2015 15:07 #250884

GYEmember Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 81 Karma: 5	I fell a few. I am confused as to the right mehalech. For now I am using GYE forum less.