Mazel Tov!

I cannot advise what to say; I am married over 20 years and have told my wife just the tip of the iceberg.

I could advise, however, what not to say, and that is: never tell a lie.

b'hatzlachah

mazal tov lev!
pls can u tell me/us how u said it and what her reaction was etc. u are really the first person i know that said something pre-marriage and i really would like to know from peoples experiences what i maybe should or shouldn't do. of course i will consult a rebbe first but it helps when i can hear what others did.
a smart man learns from his mistakes a wise man learns from other peoples mistakes
not that this is a mistake actually quite the opposite but im just applying.
thx!