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Re: need guidance 30 Sep 2013 10:17 #219954

Bh starting yeshiva so I have less time for shtusim. Feeling pretty good about myself. I am thinking about applying the tafsik method. I need a good shevoah for a bochur in yeshiva. Any ideas which worked will be appreciated. Generally speaking I'm beginning to see this struggle a lot more as a general relationship builder with hashem rather than as an isolated problem so that's pretty cool. Also when walking down the streets and when I manage not to take that second look it's like.... Wow... I feel that I actually accomplished something special and helped make myself a little bit more of a receptacle for hashem blessings... And that's a great feeling.... That hashem is with you every step of the way in an open and revealed way.
Sorry for ranting....
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Re: need guidance 01 Oct 2013 02:03 #220016

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Re: need guidance 01 Oct 2013 03:41 #220026

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The best deterrent in my opinion is having to tell someone of your intention to fall.If you have internet in yeshiva then you can make the deterrent posting about it or chatting with someone.If don't have internet and can't (or won't) call someone then maybe having to listen to one of the recordings of a phone conference would work. guardyoureyes.com/tools/calls

I usually had a much easier time in yeshiva, I hope you will too.

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Re: need guidance 01 Oct 2013 06:07 #220032

Thanks for the advice
btw whats all the roshei teivos.
I guess I'm still new to this website

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