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Re: Tryin' 12 Aug 2015 20:53 #261624

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Gibbor120 , you are very sweet. I have no problem whatsoever with what you wrote.I think Dov is saying more. But in an after thought i think Dov is taking one aspect of the program which is " be humble and honest show your real face and use your real name and talk to real people", and basing the program on this foundation ; which i dont disagree at all that it is fundamental to recovery. And most of GYErs will do that as a last resort. And he wants to bring home that we should be "machmir" on this and "makel" in other areas and not the opposite. Just thinking out loud.(maybe i should stop analyzing people altogether).
But what he wrote about the snake oil deserves clarification.

Re: Tryin' 12 Aug 2015 23:15 #261640

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newaction wrote:
Gibbor120 , you are very sweet. I have no problem whatsoever with what you wrote.I think Dov is saying more. But in an after thought i think Dov is taking one aspect of the program which is " be humble and honest show your real face and use your real name and talk to real people", and basing the program on this foundation ; which i dont disagree at all that it is fundamental to recovery. And most of GYErs will do that as a last resort. And he wants to bring home that we should be "machmir" on this and "makel" in other areas and not the opposite. Just thinking out loud.(maybe i should stop analyzing people altogether).
But what he wrote about the snake oil deserves clarification.


Actually what gibbor wrote to explain Dov, Dov told me the same in text messaging....if you want the transcript send me an email please.
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Re: Tryin' 17 Aug 2015 16:46 #261935

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Email me please for the Dial-in Number and Conference ID

Call will be from 1:20 - 1:45 iy"H.

Step 12!
Big book and white book

As many of us are not actively workin' the steps, we will read part of step 12 today, and move on to Step 1 tomorrow iy"H.
We will encourage Step 1 shares (personal history), but very brief.
Work it, for you're worth it!


No need to announce yourself or to speak or to say your name.

Any concerns or requests, let me know please.

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Re: Tryin' 18 Aug 2015 13:14 #262071

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Email me please for the Dial-in Number and Conference ID

Call will be from 1:20 - 1:45 EST iy"H.

Step 1!
White book and Big book

We will begin Step 1 today iy"H!
We will encourage Step 1 shares (personal history), but very brief, and NEVER any pressure *.
Work it, for you're worth it!

* (to say anythin'; "encourage," for it's been proven to be productive, but there will be no pressurin' at all)



No need to announce yourself or to speak or to say your name.

Any concerns or requests, let me know please.

Cordnoy/Avrohom
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Last Edit: 18 Aug 2015 13:18 by cordnoy.

Re: Tryin' 19 Aug 2015 16:28 #262234

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Email me please if you still don't have number

Call will be from 1:20 - 1:45 EST iy"H.

Step 1!
White book and Big book

We will begin Step 1 today iy"H!
We will encourage Step 1 shares (personal history), but very brief, and NEVER any pressure *.
Work it, for you're worth it!

* (to say anythin'; "encourage," for it's been proven to be productive, but there will be no pressurin' at all)



No need to announce yourself or to speak or to say your name.

Any concerns or requests, let me know please.

Cordnoy/Avrohom
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin
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Re: Tryin' 20 Aug 2015 16:06 #262394

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Thanks to R' Guard, we now have a new number.
There are extra benefits for this.
The main one is that now there is a local number for 55 countries.
that means if you are in Australia, Romania, Ukraine, Slovenia, New York, Israel, Barbados, or any of a list of 55 countries, you can now access the call free of charge.

So, if you have 25 minutes today to help me manage my life, email me please for the new number.

Call will be from 1:20 - 1:45 EST iy"H.

Step 1!
White book and Big book

We will begin Step 1 today iy"H!
We will encourage Step 1 shares (personal history), but very brief, and NEVER any pressure *.
Work it, for you're worth it!

* (to say anythin'; "encourage," for it's been proven to be productive, but there will be no pressurin' at all)



No need to announce yourself or to speak or to say your name.

Any concerns or requests, let me know please.

Cordnoy/Avrohom
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin
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Re: Tryin' 20 Aug 2015 17:56 #262413

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Great call today.
Thank you.
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
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STORY TIME :)

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Re: Tryin' 20 Aug 2015 18:08 #262421

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stillgoing wrote:
Great call today.
Thank you.


My pleasure; i feel bad that there were some who were havin' difficulty with the numbers.
Will try to fix that.
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Re: Tryin' 20 Aug 2015 18:15 #262423

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cordnoy
i feel bad that there were some who were havin' difficulty with the numbers

I haven't had any difficulties with numbers since I quite school.
That's what calculators are for.
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
Yirai's Memories
STORY TIME :)

Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.

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Re: Tryin' 20 Aug 2015 18:30 #262426

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stillgoing wrote:
cordnoy
i feel bad that there were some who were havin' difficulty with the numbers

I haven't had any difficulties with numbers since I quite school.
That's what calculators are for.


Perhaps you should have stayed for some spellin'.
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Re: Tryin' 20 Aug 2015 18:43 #262427

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CordNoy
Perhaps you should have stayed for some spellin'.

yo brodder. ef yoo new what hood i'z grown up in, yood bee glade I don't be tawke'n like KAAALEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDDD!
and, atleest I know my "g"'s
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
Yirai's Memories
STORY TIME :)

Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.

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Re: Tryin' 20 Aug 2015 19:18 #262431

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stillgoing wrote:
CordNoy
Perhaps you should have stayed for some spellin'.

yo brodder. ef yoo new what hood i'z grown up in, yood bee glade I don't be tawke'n like KAAALEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDDD!
and, atleest I know my "g"'s


Kol hakavod to you.

On a serious note, I see how you wrote it and I always wondered. Is it "g"'s, or "g's"?

Thanks
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Last Edit: 20 Aug 2015 19:41 by cordnoy.

Re: Tryin' 20 Aug 2015 19:25 #262432

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Geez!
Handbook | Skep's Tips
My threads:
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

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Last Edit: 20 Aug 2015 19:30 by bigmoish.

Re: Tryin' 24 Aug 2015 14:53 #262630

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Thanks to R' Guard, we now have a new number.
There are extra benefits for this.
The main one is that now there is a local number for 55 countries.
that means if you are in Australia, Romania, Ukraine, Slovenia, New York, Israel, Barbados, or any of a list of 55 countries, you can now access the call free of charge.

So, if you have 25 minutes today to help me manage my life, email me please for the new number.

Call will be from 1:20 - 1:45 EST iy"H.

Step 1!
White book and Big book

We will be continuin' Step 1 today iy"H!
We will encourage Step 1 shares (personal history), but very brief, and NEVER any pressure *.
Work it, for you're worth it!

* (to say anythin'; "encourage," for it's been proven to be productive, but there will be no pressurin' at all)



No need to announce yourself or to speak or to say your name.

Any concerns or requests, let me know please.

Cordnoy/Avrohom
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/210029-Tryin
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Re: Tryin' 25 Aug 2015 16:49 #262720

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Today's call!
!:20 - 1:45

Step work
We still in Step 1.

Local numbers for all.
Email me for call info please.

Thanks

b'hatzlachah
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