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Re: How Is Your Day Going? 25 Jan 2013 14:57 #201388

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Time for a joke. My day is a bit complex:

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Re: How Is Your Day Going? 25 Jan 2013 15:20 #201390

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Agree Gevurah, I like this thread more the "just saying hi" one.

Thanks for reviving it.

Yitzchok and by the way I am on 9.1 today, so thanking Hashem for that.
The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it’s connection

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 25 Jan 2013 17:50 #201397

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10/1 im in numb mode dont know what or how im feeling
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Re: How Is Your Day Going? 25 Jan 2013 19:19 #201402

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Divrei Chaim wrote:
Time for a joke. My day is a bit complex:

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Finally the i servers have something to do
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 25 Jan 2013 21:04 #201409

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#DIV/0!!!!!!!!!!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 26 Jan 2013 22:07 #201417

i was hit with some strong temptation this morning. what stopped me from acting on it was the fact that i would have to take my name off the 90 day wall. after not acting out my day was great.
i used to look back all the time saying "oh no! what have i done! Hashem help me erase the past." and i never heard a response.
finally i started looking forward saying "Hashem i'm leaving the past to you and i'm forgetting all about it. help me have a good future. help me from here and on be the person You want me to be." and that's where i realized Hashem had been waiting to help me all along

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 27 Jan 2013 09:55 #201433

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Great! Fantastic. Keep it up!

(Keep in mind that you will need to develop a positive motivation to prevent yourself from falling. Relying on an external motivation such as wanting to stay on the chart will help in the short term but can't be a long term strategy)
Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up!

No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie

The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards

Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 27 Jan 2013 09:58 #201434

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Back to our regularly scheduled program...

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Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up!

No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie

The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards

Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 28 Jan 2013 00:21 #201453

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been clean for 12 days!
starting to get that tingly feeling though:unsure:
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Have a great day, unless, of course, you made other plans. ~ obbormottel
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Re: How Is Your Day Going? 28 Jan 2013 01:26 #201459

yeah i agree. im working on that. for right now though im using everything i can
i used to look back all the time saying "oh no! what have i done! Hashem help me erase the past." and i never heard a response.
finally i started looking forward saying "Hashem i'm leaving the past to you and i'm forgetting all about it. help me have a good future. help me from here and on be the person You want me to be." and that's where i realized Hashem had been waiting to help me all along

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 29 Jan 2013 02:38 #201503

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Thank G-d i see it like 8/10 B''H! It's better than yesterday, i hope it's worse than tomorrow B''H!

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 29 Jan 2013 14:46 #201507

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Baruch Hashem -- 10 / 10 today is day 10.

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 29 Jan 2013 23:20 #201519

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A beautiful 10 B"H
The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it’s connection

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 01 Feb 2013 03:25 #201633

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I'M BACK!

(today is day 1 we'll see how things proceed)
Last Edit: 01 Feb 2013 03:26 by mr. emunah.

Re: How Is Your Day Going? 01 Feb 2013 03:42 #201638

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B"H I give 9.5 / 10. Today is day 14 (yad) I lend you my hand just take care of it. Kol hayad...
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