hi Talanted Tehillim Zuger,

i have wrote a whole replay but i got timed out of GUE so when i signed in again my whole long Chizuk was gone, i guess it wasnt meant to be,

but i will tsay this part, one of my Roshie Yeshivos use d to always say, that Hashem send us NISYONOS before he wants to give us something good, so in order to make sure that we deserve it he send us a Nisuyon, for every person on the leve where they are, i have personally seen allot of this concept happening to me that after being strong in certain situations that i was rewarded from Hashem, so keep on saying Thehillim that always helps, and i hope that you will find your Bashert'e real soon.


(wanna be a ) Tzadikel.

great to hear that HER is leaving soon

may the RBSO shower you with bracha vehatzlocho!

i think this calls for some tehillim accompanied by liquid refreshments and some (talented) musical interludes

to zemiros:
the music is playing! as we speak
yossi green al todin (idk if anyone shares my taste but i really go for yossi green, there's nothing like 8th note)
to tzaddikel:
thanx a million for the machshava tova, but whatever you wrote is kinda good enough
really encouraging!

anytime TZ.

btw, i LOVE 8th Note, especially the song of Chaim Yisrael.

SHE'S GONE  :D SHE'S GONE  :D SHE'S GONE  :D
I'M PARTYING NOW IF ANYONE WANTS TO JOIN ME!!!!!!!!!!

TehillimZugger wrote on 23 Aug 2011 19:41:


I share in your simcha.

OTOH, there are a million more 'SHE's out there, so ...

what's "otoh"?
there are not a million SHE's SHE is special lol
seriously i dont usually ge the SHE's of the world coming into my house and... everything
whatever its over
btw did i write anything earlier about going to sleep early?

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OH. On The Other Hand

hey guys wanna hear something cool?

sefer chassidim [siman 477] writes "two brothers married to two sisters, one of them will die, or one of them will not be matzliach (i think that means they won't have kids)" he goes on to say that even bidieved if they already got married! they should divorce. he says this only in regard to 2 bros married to 2 sisters, but in his tzavaah (siman 33) he writes that besides for that one man should not be meshadech with another man twice at all even son and daughter to daughter and son.

so i had known all of this before but you can always find heterim as far as the tzavaah is concerned and in the sefer he doesn't discuss my particular case, but today i checked out this calculation brought down in a different sefer of rabbi yehuda hachassid (and i'm not giving a maareh makom because in my opinion, this isn't something that should be tried out, and definitely not by already married men) where you can work out a certain formula using the names of a boy and a girl to see if they're suited together. so i checked my name and HER name, and guess what:

they will live long years together unhappy and frustrated with each other!!!
what do you say to that? 
than g-d, i'm saved!

I'm happy for your success, but I think you need to move on and shift your focus to something else in a positive way.  Spending too long thinking about her (in small letters), even about your success can be dangerous.  Share with us some of the positive things you are doing.  The asei tov, not just the sur meira. 

you're right.
i would share positive things i'm doing if they would be noigeia to the oilam here. being that they're not and i risk being recognized if i put in too many details [i think i did already] i won't.

so share a good vort.

i'm headed for the beis medrash, meet me there

I know of two brothers who married two sisters and one of them died in a horrific car accident, so go figure....we did bring up this sefer chassidim when we were trying to make sense of this tragedy....
but on a good note, I agree with Gibbor: if you are not shidduching with this girl, obsessing over her (coming or leaving, or jumping up and down, whateva) can lead to more problems than you can afford to have.
SO zug a kapitel tehilim and move on, chaver!