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Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 13:31 #115676

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i was doing pretty good until now but various circumstances led to me spending the meals this past shabbos with a certain girl (i'm a bachur) and then going on a full day trip with her yesterday, now there were other ppl there so it wasn't yichud and i didn't even speak to her (directly) the whole time, but it was kind of uncomfortable going to meron, tzfat, tiveria. with two ppl out of the six going being the only singles and of the opposite sex, so there we were both davening for a shidduch and it was kinda uncomfortable [was that a run-on sentence?]. but i survived. then last night i had a dream where i watched p**n and started mas******ing i didn't finish though, i woke up and stopped. so i'm still doing pretty good but i could really use some chizuk.
oh, and did i mention that i said tehilim at the mekomos hakedoshim?
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 13:58 #115684

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I'm afraid that I don't have the right words for chizuk, but hopefully just seeing that someone cares about you will give you the chizuk you need.  Be well my friend.
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 14:12 #115686

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thanx
HER camera is right in front of me as we speak and there are some good pics of me [not to mention HER] o0n it and i'm NOT going to touch it
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 14:14 #115687

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How soon can you get the heck out of your situation?  The sooner the better!
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 14:19 #115688

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You're doing great! don't worry about the dream, it's just the YH using the stress of the day to try to get you down. It's what you do when you're awake that counts.

Keep on Rocking and Trucking!!

Gevura!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 14:24 #115689

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thanx everyone!
the camera is still on the table and my sister[NOT[b] HER[/b] WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU] asked me to take some pics off of it and i politely told her to do it herself
i got a funny look but i was successful
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 14:26 #115690

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Gevura ShebYesod wrote on 22 Aug 2011 14:19:



Keep on Rocking and Trucking!!

Gevura!

hey i didn't notice that u used RAT, thanx!
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 14:28 #115692

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You have a copyright on it? sorry...  ;D ;D ;D ;D

P.S. I like rock too.
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 16:40 #115714

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hi TehillimZuger,
are you out of the 'situation' yet?
if not, then it's time to rev dem enjins and put the petal to the metal
kibalti mayrabi mi'Bardichev sheyichyeh, that we don't look back, we just go forward, this is the NO HAND-WRINGING ZONE
turn up the speakers and let the Tehillim roll..
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 16:51 #115719

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SHE is not around right now, but SHE will be on and off for the next week or so.
but do u seriously think i would've gotten this far without them tehillim and speakers???????? WHAT THE GESHTANTZIMFLEEGIN IS WRONG WITH YOU?

RAT!
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 20:10 #115775

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I found in the past, that pictures of dressed people we know are sometimes more difficult than undressed pictures of people we don't know. SO you're truly a giboir and an inspiration. I don't know if I could hold myself back in your situation. And you're single! You certainly have a VERY special someone in store for you.
Stay strong! 
Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 21:04 #115787

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yeah. she's here now again.
keep the chizuk coming guys!
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 21:31 #115800

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creep up on her and position a Monstuh' Truck Speaker near her (ear) and then let loose with Kapitel 119. you should only hear from her again in about 2030...
or book a trip to Meron Tzfas Teverya without her
or call the Mishmeres Hatzniyus
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 21:35 #115802

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u really got me laughing  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
but she's blowdrying my sister's sheitel right now (she's very talented lol) and that would kind of upset some ppl here.
oops, she just asked for the computer, i'm off for some music.
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: Chizuk please 22 Aug 2011 21:40 #115804

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This is NOT an ideal situation.

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Why don't you come over and spend a few days with me...
For Dov and the other two guys who care,
My real name really is
 Eli
Like the original Bendy, Ein hadavar talui ela bee




 
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