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Re: Building up the Fort!(the post name will change as I do) 17 Aug 2011 20:25 #115128

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chazak chazak wrote on 17 Aug 2011 19:04:

enjoy your fun.
you asked why you are a tzadik.
we find in chazal that we compare people to give praise.
the gemoro says dovid hamelech said לא חסיד אני? שכל מלכי אומות העולם........................ ואני ידי מלוכלכות בדם ובשפיר ובשליא לטהר אשה לבעלה. so we see that we compare people and thats how we find out how special duvid is.
My brother most people with your YH are not on this forum. and are not working on them selfs. and you are here struglling and working bitter **** the way out and i shudnt call you tzaddik.
צדיק אתה

Thanks Tzaddik!
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Re: Building up the Fort!(the post name will change as I do) 17 Aug 2011 20:48 #115136

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obormottel wrote on 17 Aug 2011 19:18:

I've never tried this myself, but they say excersize  is really good from depression. Also, B-group vitamins, red meat and red wine. Take yourself out to lunch to a steakhouse, and then jog home.

can't wait for your next post-you're gonna be a junior member!
thanks for the advice!
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 17 Aug 2011 20:57 #115138

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Excercise definitely works.  I've heard it can work as well as anti-depressants, but not as good as one of bard's posts.  Laughter is the best medicine.
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 14:13 #115220

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kidushashem wrote on 17 Aug 2011 18:22:

:'(, :-\ ??? :D ;D

The above smileys represent my facial expressions,in order, spanning from before until after reading these last few posts...


GOOD MORNING KH!  How do you feel this morning?
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 14:21 #115224

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gibbor120 wrote on 18 Aug 2011 14:13:

kidushashem wrote on 17 Aug 2011 18:22:

:'(, :-\ ??? :D ;D

The above smileys represent my facial expressions,in order, spanning from before until after reading these last few posts...


GOOD MORNING KH!  How do you feel this morning?


Terrible, thanks for asking.
I think I might need to get off line now for a while. I haven't fallen or anything but I'm feeling extremely pent up and negative.
I just hope this goes away soon.
I'm also involved with the stock market which is completely down these days and I lost a lot of money which is not helping my mood...
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 14:24 #115225

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kidushashem wrote on 18 Aug 2011 14:21:

Terrible, thanks for asking.


That's what I love about this forum - Honesty  .

I'll send you some SMILES   :D ;D 8).

I hope it helps. Have a GREAT day!
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 14:52 #115231

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KH, i feel for you and wish you the best
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Building up the Fort!(the post name will change as I do) 18 Aug 2011 15:23 #115244

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kidushashem wrote on 17 Aug 2011 20:48:

you're gonna be a junior member!

Btw, congrats on YOUR promotion! How does it work here, do you amass points?
As for stock market - isn't it the nature of the beast, the ups and the downs, and the lossesand the gains?
Zemmy sent me something from M.M. Horodoker on how people overthink their parnoso and thereby limit it. Ill send you the link when I get to work, unless he beats me to it.stay strong. Kof av is tomorrow, Your namesake's yorzeit. You can draw a lot of inspiration from his struggle. No doubt communist torchure chambers are as bad as the demons in yours and my heads.
Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.
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Re: Building up the Fort!(the post name will change as I do) 18 Aug 2011 15:52 #115251

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obormottel wrote on 18 Aug 2011 15:23:

kidushashem wrote on 17 Aug 2011 20:48:

you're gonna be a junior member!

Btw, congrats on YOUR promotion! How does it work here, do you amass points?

here is how it works, when you hit 50 posts you can use those points and your Metro Card to ride the subway

obormottel wrote on 18 Aug 2011 15:23:

As for stock market - isn't it the nature of the beast, the ups and the downs, and the lossesand the gains?
Zemmy sent me something from M.M. Horodoker on how people overthink their parnoso and thereby limit it.

it was from Reb Mendele Vitebsker and here is the link
www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=3284.msg112665#msg112665
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 19:59 #115331

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Hey, look, I am a junior member, too :
Vitebsker, Horodoker - I think once he moved to Eretz Isroel, they started calling him Vitebsker, and not Horodoker, or maybe it's farkert?
Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 20:02 #115333

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Reb Nachman Horodonker

Reb Mendele Vitebsker

they both moved to EY but they were two different people 
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 20:04 #115334

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Me now and 97 days ago were also two diffrent people. One is shteiging hecher and heading to Eretz Yisroel with Moshiach and the other is dying with Hoshems help.
Yes We Can!!!, Yes We Can!!!, Yes We Can!!!,
With Hoshems Help
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 21:51 #115363

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ZemirosShabbos wrote on 18 Aug 2011 20:02:

Reb Nachman Horodonker

Reb Mendele Vitebsker

they both moved to EY but they were two different people 

no-no
Reb Menachem Mendel Horodoker was the Rebbe/Chaver of the Baal Hatanya after the Maggid's passing untill his move to EY. The famous Chapter 27 in 4th chelek of Tanya (talking about ptiras tzaddkim) is the Baal HaTanya's iggeres tanchumin on Reb MM's ptira. I am 99% sure that Reb Mendel Vitebsker is the same guy, and he got the new nickname upon moving to EY. I can try and look up some sources... or we can ask Bardichev, he might know something like this, no?
Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 18 Aug 2011 22:17 #115366

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Mottel you are right

Reb Menacham Mendel Vitebsker was also known as Horodoker (see Wikipedia)

my bad
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: KidusHashem - trying to make it 19 Aug 2011 09:02 #115401

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Shkoyach to all you guys, I read the letter and hope to internalize and put it into action.
I'm glad that was sorted out with R' MM vitebsker/horodoker

BTW, anyone know about "the power of now"?

Have a Shabbos, extra zemiros for Zemmy!

KH
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