Tuesday, 27 December 2011

Spilled the Beans

by Zemiros Shabbos (See all authors)

I should write an email every day to thank GYE for what it does for me and for all of klal yisrael, but I am writing now because of a special occasion. I told my wife this week of my struggles with lust; both the falls and b'h the victories. I could have done better with the planning, but it happened almost impulsively and I spilled the beans to her. The greatest, most tremendous thing to me is how she reacted. She did not go running out the door. She did not pout for 3 days straight. She was appreciative, loving and understanding, and she was impressed that I admitted to the problem and took steps to help myself.

Without GYE, the website with its information and advice, and the forum where the most precious, kind-hearted tzadikim walk the streets, and the special friends I have made through GYE, there would have been no way that I would ever have reached a state where I can tell my wife, let alone know what to say and what not to say. I feel so good and happy that this barrier has been lifted from my marriage and I can face my wife honestly and have her support and understanding to assist me in the struggle.

I cannot thank you enough and I have a hard time thinking of someone who has a bigger zechus than those who run GYE. Thank you so much.