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I wanted to share my recent experience in the hopes that it can be mechazik others. I’m 30 and married, and like so many of us I’ve been batting in this area for years. There’s always ups and downs, but eventually I reached a point at which I felt I had things under co...

Shabbos Parshas Matos Massei 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shabbos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #14, designed to be printed out and read over Shabbos. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all rela...

YOUTH MUST BE TAUGHT TO BE ASHAMED OF SIN In our days, there are various groups seeking to force extreme liberal and leftist ideologies upon everyone, to try to justify every sinner, claiming that people are born with negative tendencies which are immutable and therefore ...

Shabbos Parshas Pinchas 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shabbos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #13, designed to be printed out and read over Shabbos. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all relating ...

In response to Chizuk Boost #572: Bad Remorse Versus Good Remorse someone wrote: Thank you very much. I needed to hear this, and it is very true point. But what should I do when I try to be positive and move forward with joy and optimism, but then the thought comes "But h...

Shabbos Parshas Chukas-Balak 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shabbos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #12, designed to be printed out and read over Shabbos. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all rela...

I've been struggling for a while with this stuff (I was exposed to it preteen age). It's only very recently that I've actually started making real change and getting better (curiously coinciding with finding this website: wink :) Starting out was a real struggle, even tho...

B"H the original GYE apps are available again at the app stores: Click here for the Android app. Click here for the iPhone app.

Shabbos Parshas Korach 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shabbos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #11, designed to be printed out and read over Shabbos. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all relating t...

The Rebbe Avrohom of Slonim zy"a, the Yesod Ha'avoda, in Toras Avos writes that the primary shortcoming of Korach was that he sought great levels in avodas Hashem, which is why he desired to be the Kohen Gadol. A person should feel that the even the seemingly minor avoda ...

We learned recently in the daf yomi (Shabbos 105b - see below) that if someone tears a garment on Shabbos in anger he is Patur because he is not doing a constructive act but only an act of destruction. So at first the Gemara asks that it is somewhat constructive, since it...

And they cried that night… Bit of a depressing story really. We were within a hop skip & jump away from getting into Eretz Yisroel- then boom! Everyone has to die in the wilderness; weeping for one night means the destruction of both temples; exiles, holocausts, battl...

Shabbos Parshas Bahaloscha 5780 To help us keep inspired through Shabbos, GuardYourEyes is proud to present Weekly Newsletter #10, designed to be printed out and read over Shabbos. The pamphlet contains stories, divrei Torah, practical advice, humor and chizuk, all relati...

SMART Recovery Meetings in Lakewood GuardYourEyes is looking to set up live recovery meetings in Lakewood New Jersey for people who are serious about stopping, based on SMART Recovery. SMART Recovery provides assistance to individuals seeking abstinence from unwanted beha...

In response to the article called "Sister-In-Laws", a member sent in the following: Thank you for a wonderful publication that is a lifeline for so many. I wanted to comment on the issue of how best to deal with an attractive sister-in-law, and in particular to the P.S....

Question: "Hi, I find myself lusting over my sister-in-law (wife’s younger sister). B”h this is not my main struggle, however it does come and go occasionally. I think it’s because she looks more feminine than my wife. She got married recently and she is very attractive a...