• Community
  • Support
  • GYE +
  • Donate
  • Community
  • Support
  • GYE +
  • Donate

The Library

Articles Ebooks Audio Newsletters Videos 12 Steps

Featured

Parsha Newsletters

Handbook

Series

Windows of the Soul

The Battle of the Generation

Old GYE Handbook

The 20 Tools

21 Attitude Principles for Lust Struggles

9 Attitude Principles for Addiction Levels

Windows of the Soul

The First Day of the Rest of My Life

Prevention

Solutions

GYE Boost

Awareness

Rabbi Dr. Avraham Twerski

General

Parsha Recovery

Q & A

Torah

The 12-Steps

News and Announcements

GYE News

GYE Announcements

GYE in the News

New on GYE

Mazal Tovs

Opportunities for Zikui HaRabim

Funding Related

Looking for

Audience

Spouses

SSA

Married

Educators

Women

Parents

Teens

Stories

Recovery

Horror

Hitting Bottom

On the Way

One Victory at a Time

Hashgacha Pratis (A&W Moments)

Testimonials

General

TaPHSiC

Phone Conferences

Forum

90 Day Journey

Chizuk E-mails

Handbooks

Short

Tips & Suggestions

Practical Tips

Filtering Tips

Spiritual Tips

Attitude Tips

Emergency Tips

Therapy Tips

Medical Tips

Q & A

GYE Answers

Questions for Women

Dov Answers

GYE Members Answer

Elya Answers

Others Answer

Halacha

Chizuk

GYE Inspiration

Members Share Inspiration

Anecdotes

Parables

Articles

Quotes

Poems

Sayings

Halacha

Torah

Divrei Torah

Chassidus

Mussar

Torah Quotes

Time of Year

Special Times

Sefirah

Parshas Zachor

Rosh Chodesh

Taanis

Aseres Yemei Teshuva

Shabbos Shuva

Shovavim

Parshas Hamaan

Shabbos Hagadol

Bedikas Chametz

Sefirah

Malchus shebi'Yesod

Three-Weeks

GYE Anniversary

Nine Days

Post Yom Tov

Yomim Tovim

Rosh-Hashanah

Yom-Kippur

Sukkos

Hoshana Raba

Simchas Torah

Chanukah

Asarah B'Teves

Tu'Bishvat

Taanis Esther

Purim

Pesach

Pesach Sheni

Lag-ba'omer

Shavuos

Shiva Asar B'Tamuz

Tisha-B'av

Tu B'Av

Yartzeits

Yartzeit of Rachel Imeinu

Yartzeit of Rav Levi Yitzchak Mi'Bardichev

Yartzeit of Rav Noach Weinburg

Yartziet of Rav Dessler- 24 of Teves

Yartzeit of The Ohr Hachayim Hakadosh

Yartzeit of Rav Shlomo of Karlin

Yartzeit of Rav Elimelech of Lizensk

Months

Nissan

Iyar

Sivan

Tamuz

Av

Elul

Tishrei

Cheshvan

Kislev

Teves

Shvat

Adar

Parsha Related

Bereishis

Noach

Lech-Lecha

Vayeira

Chayei-Sarah

Toldos

Vayeitzei

Vayishlach

Vayeishev

Mikeitz

Vayigash

Vayechi

Shemos

Vaeira

Bo

Beshalach

Yisro

Mishpatim

Terumah

Tetzaveh

Ki-Sisa

Vayakhel

Pekudei

Vayikra

Tzav

Shemini

Tazria

Metzora

Acharei-Mos

Kedoshim

Emor

Behar

Bechukosai

Bamidbar

Nasso

Behaaloscha

Shelach

Korach

Chukas

Balak

Pinchas

Matos

Masei

Devarim

Vaeschanan

Eikev

Re-eh

Shoftim

Ki-Teitzei

Ki-Savo

Nitzavim

Vayeilech

Nitzavim

Vayeilech

Haazinu

Vezos-Habrachah

Tearing in Anger

Tearing in Anger

By the.guard
We learned recently in the daf yomi (Shabbos 105b - see below) that if someone tears a garment on Shabbos in anger he is Patur because he is not doing a constructive act but only an act of destruction. So at first the Gemara asks that it is somewhat constructive, since it...
Learn more
Leaving Mitzrayim Until Getting the Torah

Leaving Mitzrayim Until Getting the Torah

By the.guard
This 15 minute talk will take you on a journey from the 10 plagues in Mitzrayim, through Kriyas Yam Suf, and all the way until Kabalas HaTorah.
Learn more

Like a Camel

By obormottel
The Gemara in Brochos, perek 9, says, "One who sees a gamal (camel) in a dream should know that it was decreed he should die, but he was saved from the decree." It brings from this week's parsha Va'Yigash perek 46 possuk 4, "Hashem tells Yaakov: 'I will go down with you t...
Learn more
The Minimalist Approach

The Minimalist Approach

By obormottel
Yosef HaTzadik is teaching us an approach in life – be a minimalist!  Many try for perfection.  We feel that anything short of perfection is not worth it.  Yosef is saying “Not true.  Accomplish whatever you can accomplish, even if it does not solve the problem, even if it is not a foolproof plan.”  Doing something is better than doing nothing!
Learn more
From the inside out

From the inside out

By obormottel
Our addictions are internal. Sometimes the external factors are unchangeable. Sometimes we accidentally see things we aren’t supposed to. Sometimes we even do it on purpose. But our Tefillah to Hashem should be to keep us strong internally.
Learn more
Zivug with God Himself

Zivug with God Himself

By obormottel
Jewish tradition, however, does not see sex , per se, as sinful. In fact, in the right context, and when engaged in with conscious purpose, sex is seen as a positive commandment,
Learn more
Protecting Our Gateway to Gan Eden

Protecting Our Gateway to Gan Eden

By obormottel
The existence in Gan Eden was one where there was no desire at all to look upon דבר שאינו שלו, anything else besides what one is supposed to have. And it is in this sense that Shabbat is "Gan Eden." It is when we must remind ourselves that we have everything we need, and we have no reason to look at anything else. And thus there is special importance to שמירת עיניים, avoiding improper sights, on Shabbat.
Learn more
Every moment of restraint

Every moment of restraint

By obormottel
Incredible vort on Megilas Rus. The Alshich Hakadosh brings that Machlon was zoche that through the "yibum" of Boaz, Machlon's neshama came back in Oved - the grandfather of Dovid Hamelech. And his almanah Rus produced malchus. What zchus did he have? And why not his brot...
Learn more
Take A Look At This. Or Not.

Take A Look At This. Or Not.

By obormottel
The Arizal among others[1] tells us Pinchas was a גלגל; reincarnation of Yitzchak. The following are allusions to this. A) The numerical value of פינחס is 208, Identical to that of יצחק. B) Both Yitzchak and Pinchas were Moser Nefesh:[2] Yizchak at the עקידה and Pinchas i...
Learn more
The Patterns of Life

The Patterns of Life

By obormottel
www.aish.com 15 mins read Parshat Kedoshim rounds out the Torah's treatment of sexual offences by listing the consequences of engaging in the various forbidden sexual relationships outlined in Parshat Acharei Mot. One of the major hallmarks of a "mode...
Learn more

Ma Zeh b'Yodecho?

By obormottel
Sometimes our falls stem from feelings of worthlessness. We say to ourselves, "I'm a nobody anyway, what's the difference if I fall?" We must remember how important each of us is! If you weren't needed, you wouldn't have been created. Our job is to figure out is for WHAT...
Learn more

The Four Parshiyos and Recovery from Lust

By obormottel
These 4 parshiyos resemble our journey in recovery. First comes Shkalim, which means we have to weigh our actions, put them in balance - the inventory. After that comes Zachor: we find the bad that has to be eliminated and we do so just like with Amalek. After we got ri...
Learn more

Please Watch Over Us

By the.guard
When we were approaching חודש שבט I heard from Reb Shlomo Meyer a vort that was tremendous chizuk for me all these years. שבט ר״ת שמרם ברכם טהרם. This month, which is entirely during the weeks of שובבים is here to remind us what our goal in life is. We ask Hashem, please...
Learn more

Judaism's view of lust

By obormottel
Judaism views lust as follows: We acknowledge the fact that G‑d created us with such feelings, and it’s certainly not an aberration to feel lustful. However, outside of marriage, we are expected to be sufficiently aware of our higher calling, utilize our intellect, and mu...
Learn more

What will you do?

By the.guard
Avraham Avinu is instructed by Hakadosh Baruch Hu to go up to the mountain and to bring Yitzchok as a Korban. R' Moishe Rosenstein gives a very beautiful and powerful insight as to why this was such a difficult test. He says, that when someone has a test and it's in fron...
Learn more

The more you feed it, the more you need it

By obormottel
The Gemara Sanhedrin (107a) says that Dovid Hamelech requested a Nisayon, and Hashem notified him that he would be tested in matters of immorality. The Gemara learns that David had relations with his wife at that point, as a way of ensuring that he could withstand the tem...
Learn more

Mishna for 12-Steppers

By obormottel
רבי אומר, הסתכל בשלושה דברים, ואין אתה בא לידי עבירה 1 דע מה למעלה ממך, 2 עין רואה, ואוזן שומעת, 3 וכל מעשיך בספר נכתבין. We see in this משנה, that רבי says that when we look at those three things, then we won't get to an עבירה. Before we go any further, we have...
Learn more

The Pollution of Sodom

By obormottel
BS”D Shalom u’Brachah, to our dear Jewish brothers and sisters in Brazil, This week, before I sent my son, Rabbi Yisochar Dov Taub, shlit”a, on a Chizzuk mission to your country, several of your community activists informed us that a recently enacted law effectively preve...
Learn more
1234567>>>

© 2023 GYE Corp. P.O. Box 32380,

Pikesville, MD 21282, U.S.A