If you've been following my thread, you'll know that I was hurting at first. A lot. Collective punishment didn't seem fair, and having great chizuk friends taken away from didn't seem fair either. However, I realize that we have to think of the klall, not just our own needs.
Not everyone is as strong as us who can shmooze with the gals and not get carried away. If one person falls because of the mix, it's not cool anymore.
I've already mourned the loss of my sister friends and I am moving
forward.
So, good bye sistas.
I won't forget you, even if I can't see you or hear from you. And I know you're reading my thread. (G-d, if you need written permission to read whatever I write, you have it!)
And Habib, you are a diamond. Never forget that, and don't listen to ANYONE who tells you otherwise, especially from that little naughty voice inside you.