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Men and Women's forums are now seperate
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TOPIC: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 29206 Views

Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 14:51 #44036

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Due to some serious breaches in Tzniyus that I am not at liberty to divulge, and after consultation with experts, it has been decided that the men and women's forums on GYE will now be completely separate. Men will not be allowed access to the women's forum, and women will not be allowed access to the men's forum.

We would also like to re-iterate that posting e-mail addresses and telephone numbers is forbidden on the forum. Instead, PM's should be used (between each gender separately).

We apologize for the inconvenience - and just so that no one should get wrong ideas, let me state that it has nothing to do with our dear women members, 7Up, Habib, Trying, Letakein and theOne.
Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:11 #44083

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I back Guard fully, although i too am heartbroken.

For now, I will remain with my girls on the womens side. You guys have plenty of very special people to help you.
I will miss you all tremendously.
I have no words to thank each and every one of you for all you have given me.
I honestly believe that my personal struggle would have failed without you amazing men who helped me step by step.
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:18 #44084

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Thanks for your support Mom, but I'd still appreciate if you make rounds once in a while by the men... Especially so that they know there's a GYE rebbitzin with whom they can consult when they need a "women's perspective" on things. But you are right, the girls will need you more now, so it's good if you do spend a bit more time on their board :-)
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:19 #44085

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For now, I am with my girls
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:21 #44086

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ok GUYS!! (sounds good no??)

THIS IS A BOYS CLUB NOW WE CAN TALK ABOUT TRUCKS WOODFORD ETC

WE NEED NOT BE BOGGED DOWN WITH SILLY STUFF LIKE SUSHI ICECREAM AND POMEGRANATE

HELLO GUYS!!

WE NEED TO STAND BEHING OUR HEILIGER GUARD 10000000%

AND IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE IT ...TOO BAD!!

AS I SAID LAST WEEK LETS NOT FORGET WHY WE ARE HERE

TO BATTLE THE Y"H AND IF WE HAVE FUN DOING IT ..GODD THAT IS A FRINGE BENEFIT!!

GO GUARD

GO GUE

RAGE ON.TRICICLE ON.KEEP ON TRUCKIN!!!  WHATEVER



BARDS


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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:26 #44087

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btw,

I may no longer be reading the mens side - too hard for me to remain silent otherwise!
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:34 #44092

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:'( :'(
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:39 #44097

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Another tough call by the Guard; but he cares too much about us for this forum to become counterproductive.

Girls, all the best to you and much hatzlacha in  your battles; I hope that you will find your own password protected forum much more effective as you will be able to speak freely, and IYH you will attract many more members whom will feel much more comfortable in the new ladies only environment.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 18:43 #44105

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You did the right thing! Wow i am so excited about this move! It will make both sides stronger moving forward! Let men be men and women be women! Now we will grow much bigger here.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 18:56 #44108

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Bards ur sooo mean...its a big loss for us only having very few ppl for support 

Though I understand guard 100%.


Gals...
Lets have a REAL PARTY.


Forget all woodford shmoodford...LIQUOR!!!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 18:59 #44109

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Guard..can we have the EN over at our side? Im guessing the men dont need it...
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 19:40 #44118

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TrYiNg, now would be the perfect time to show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. It was very sad that it had to come to this, but now that we are here, we need to make the most of it. I strongly suspect that many women who were only observing will now feel comfortable to start posting knowing that there is a women only section. I'm also really sorry that you had to deal with this in a manner similar to the way I did. I just want to reiterate (even though you've already been told this) that you are in no way responsible. We must do our best to help others, but we cannot jeopardize ourselves in the process. Keep up the amazing work, and try not to let this change bother you so much. I hope that before too long the womens' forum will be teeming with so much activity that 7up will not be able to respond to all of the posts.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 20:07 #44125

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I'm going to miss the support that I've gotten from the girls, but I realize that whatever happened, our goal is to grow, and avoid risks.

And I know that the girls still support me, even if they're not reading and responding to my thread, just as they know that I support and have the utmost respect for them.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 20:34 #44136

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I don't like this one bit.

I say throw those who abused the system out.

Why should the rest of us suffer?

This sucks. Some of the best chizuk was from the women. They are naturally more spiritual.

The forum won't be the same anymore.

> > > > > > > > > > >

I'll miss you gals.

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 20:58 #44146

I'm with the Mo-man.

But this might be a good thing.

Time will tell.
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