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Re: Been there done that... not really 27 Mar 2011 18:15 #102160

tzaddik90 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 668 Karma: 1	durdaya, you may be triggering others!!! :D ;D :o : (this is the first time i used these emoticons)..
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Re: Been there done that... not really 27 Mar 2011 21:07 #102194

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So we've made another discovery, which I believe I knew b4 but today I saw it for real. I was walking around today with real burning desire for something not allowed. Fighting all day with my thoughts and eyes. Couldnt figure out why, until...
I realized that when I have so much to do, I get overwhelmed, dont accomplish anything and thats when I feel the need to act out. In a sense its a physical represntation of the feeling that Im wasting my time and everything else in my life.

ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא
If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo
ולבי חלל בקרבי
לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים

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Re: Been there done that... not really 27 Mar 2011 22:13 #102204

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Gesher - when I read your post I had to check again to make sure that it wasn't me that wrote that! I find myself struggling with exactly the same thing and i often feel that the more I have to so the less I accomplish. Feeling unaccomplished and down on myself really triggers! I found that soemtimes it helps to stop thinking about everything I have to do, and just focus on doing SOMETHING now. It doesn't matter which thing etc. just to take one thiong that needs to get done and DO IT! When that is done just move on to ONE MORE THING.

Thanks for putting your struggle out there -- its such a chizuk to me and I'm sure the whole chevra

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Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 08:05 #102249

geshertzarmeod Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Like a bridge over troubled water. Posts: 595 Karma: 3	glad to be of help. Now lets hope that your advice can help me.
	ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo ולבי חלל בקרבי לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים Last Edit: by .

Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 22:07 #102351

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I would like to announce to one and all that...
TODAY I WAS STUPID!!!!!!
BH I didnt fall, but that was no thanks to me.
I have HKBH to thank or GYE but not myself
I was in bed with a stomach ache for most of the day
and instead of taking good advice from friends
I spent alot of time thinking things that shouldnt be thought
just STUPID!!!!!
HKBH protected me, I didnt deserve it at all.
We will try to stop being stupid in the future
as today I learned that there is still hope for idiots.

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Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 22:27 #102358

Yosef Hatzadik OFFLINE Platinum Boarder A GYE'er since 2010 Posts: 2986 Karma: 10	Gesher Tzar Meod wrote on 28 Mar 2011 22:07: TODAY I WAS STUPID!!!!!! Me too
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Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 22:31 #102362

geshertzarmeod Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Like a bridge over troubled water. Posts: 595 Karma: 3	why, cause you read my post?
	ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo ולבי חלל בקרבי לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים Last Edit: by .

Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 22:38 #102365

Yosef Hatzadik OFFLINE Platinum Boarder A GYE'er since 2010 Posts: 2986 Karma: 10	No. the stupid part was when I was not on GYE.
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Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 22:40 #102366

geshertzarmeod Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Like a bridge over troubled water. Posts: 595 Karma: 3	Im not going to pry, but if you want to elaborate Im all ears.
	ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo ולבי חלל בקרבי לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים Last Edit: by .

Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 22:44 #102368

Reb Yid OFFLINE Gold Boarder TKO the YH Posts: 274 Karma: 10	Ok you 2. I will settle it. You were both stupid today. But that means that you weren't stupid yesterday, or you would just say "I am stupid!!" It also means that as of midnight tonight you could say "I was not stupid today", because it would no longer be today. So even if you were stupid today, it's not as bad as it seems!! (Can you tell I've been a Rebbe for a while? ) Keep Smiling!!!
	I am special I was chosen for this special mission. I must succeed. Klal Yisroel needs me. Hashem needs me. Chizuk From the Parsha www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=3456.0 Letter From YH www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=3445.0;attach=1631 Last Edit: by .

Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 22:47 #102370

geshertzarmeod Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Like a bridge over troubled water. Posts: 595 Karma: 3	Hey Yosef! Look who's calling us stupid! Well I wont stand for that! You cant call my friend stupid!
	ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo ולבי חלל בקרבי לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים Last Edit: by .

Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 22:49 #102371

Yosef Hatzadik OFFLINE Platinum Boarder A GYE'er since 2010 Posts: 2986 Karma: 10	World wants to elect a president. Reb Yid says that guy is stupid. Politic as usual? ;D
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Re: Been there done that... not really 28 Mar 2011 23:00 #102374

geshertzarmeod Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Like a bridge over troubled water. Posts: 595 Karma: 3	Well one things for sure. Reb Yid is right, tomorrow is another day. Im going to sleep and hopefully I wont be stupid anymore. Good night.
	ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo ולבי חלל בקרבי לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים Last Edit: by .

Re: Been there done that... not really 29 Mar 2011 00:02 #102380

Reb Yid OFFLINE Gold Boarder TKO the YH Posts: 274 Karma: 10	Just wanted to add. I didn't say either of you were stupid. I just agreed. And I wanted to wish Gesher a Refuah Sheleima for his stomach ache. Good Night to all.
	I am special I was chosen for this special mission. I must succeed. Klal Yisroel needs me. Hashem needs me. Chizuk From the Parsha www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=3456.0 Letter From YH www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=3445.0;attach=1631 Last Edit: by .

Re: Been there done that... not really 29 Mar 2011 08:50 #102416

geshertzarmeod Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Like a bridge over troubled water. Posts: 595 Karma: 3	OY Reb Yid, dont take me seriously. I was joking about you calling us stupid, i thought you rebbeim had a sense of humor. why else would you go into chinuch. jk thanks 4 the good wishes
	ישראל אע"פ שחטא ישראל הוא If you're connected above, you won't fall down below - Reb Shlomo ולבי חלל בקרבי לולא האמנתי לראות בטוב ה' בארץ חיים Last Edit: by .