Briut wrote on 06 Jun 2010 11:00:
Nevermore:
You're right, of course. We've never "arrived." The 'journey' IS the destination.
Still, 90 is a nice milestone, I think.
You make a good point, though I meant something else with that actually...
I think that one of the easiest ways to reach your goal here, is by not worrying too much on "
how" you do it, but "
that" you do it. When a person starts taking big steps toward his destination, he'll go through a lot of self-discovery and he'll learn what it is that works best
for him. He'll learn how to get there by just heading out,
even if he's lacking in the "know how"! Later, once he's crossed through certain territory, he can then ask himself all sorts of questions regarding what works for him. And with that; what works for one person won't necessarily work for another. The only thing that's demanded in every approach though, is that we stick to just one route, and remain steady and consistent in our efforts.
Mazal tov to you Briut on reaching 90 days!
