bardichev wrote on 22 Apr 2010 15:47:


:o :o :o

Hope you meant GYE Family.... :-X :-X

Tried-123 wrote on 22 Apr 2010 17:20:


When Bardichev joined, this site was Known only as GuardUrEyes.Com.

All old-timers refer to it as GUE. It is only us newcomers that call it GYE.



Heilige Rebbe, am I right?

Yosef Hatzadik wrote on 22 Apr 2010 17:23:


Its called 'veteran Language', a.k.a. Bardish/Dovish/etc.
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Ok guys I'm here @ day 88 and still asking the question what I started this thread with! So now what 90 days is accomplished, but still very depressed and feel like giving up on working out all my issues, and just let things fly,

Sometimes it feel that way...but which will make you happier? It's a question which, if asked to me, would make me a bit frustrated - because what I KNOW will make me happy, and what I WANT to do, are sometimes very different.

Do you find that the habit is easier to fight?

The habit of porn and the like yes are easier to beat for the most part, but there r so many other issued I have to deal with, they this addiction brought on me, that I feel like JIPPED!

I agree i have found the same thing the p**n has brought on other stuff but we can only take one thing at a time so in the meantime enjoy how far you have come and worry about the other stuff later.

Why worry l8r , this. Porn is past me, gota move on to next item on list, besides that I don't really wana be busy for the next 2 years to work on things, I'm old enough to start living already

what ever you feel comfortable with. you are an incredible inspiration to me!

jewinpain wrote on 23 Apr 2010 02:15:


Can not tell you how much I identify with your sentiment.....

Everybody here keeps on speaking about how inspired u are from JIP, can u guys explain me what is there to be inspired of, I'm a DEPRESSED JIP that's all,
Let me tell u guys y I'm so SAD today, I saw a therapist today, who told me that even after 90 days I'm still an addict so I should call myself an addict in recovery for at least as long I was a real addict, so if I was a bad boy for 2 years it will take that amount of time to get rid of it, do u think I have koach again, 2 more years just to heal, I spent 2 years in dirt pit and now 2 more years to come out, when will I start living like a normal human being like most other guys on this world live we r just a few hundred members here struggling, the rest of the world is enjoying life, is this pain divided evenly, or do we have to carry this load alone
WHY?

as long as you are not watching p**n and m**********g why does it matter what you are called? of course you are going to need to guard your eyes the best you can but still you should not diminish your accomplishment.

Its not about how I'm called I couldn't care less on my name, its more of a disappointment that this takes so long to get cured from

that is what i am saying the people on GYE say it takes 90 days and if you don't watch p**n anymore than why does it matter how long of a period you are called an addict? i am supposed to get my braces off in a month after they are off after they are off i will need to wear a retainer so technically you could say i still have messed up teeth because i still need to wear something on them even if it is only at night and even though my teeth will be just fine! this applys to you as well you will reach 90 days and you will be in really good shape but it not something you won't have to take care of and make sure it does not come back like if i don't wear my retainer the teeth will shift back but the chances of that happening are more likely than you become addicted to p**n again.

By the way you will keep posting on the thread even after you 90 days right? because that way you can have a retainer to keep your accomplishment in place!