JIP I want to quote you in today's chizuk e-mail!  ;D

Guard! I'm blushing

jewinpain wrote on 19 Mar 2010 11:43:


guardureyes wrote on 18 Feb 2010 18:35:


Steve wrote on 22 Mar 2010 14:17:






jewinpain wrote on 22 Mar 2010 03:43:


The Ba'al Shem Tov says that there is a mishpat on Roash Hashana how your year will be.
There is a separate mishpat every day , Adam nidan b'chol yom, on how YOU WILL ACCEPT that year's events. What your mood will be.


JIP: Today you are a ZAKEI B"DIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yosef! Speaking about the daily mishpat, I heard a very nice vort from 1 of my speakers who always makes me do thsuvha, he spoke about "that on rosh hashuna hashem sets everyones parnusa, so what if some1 messed up on that day, he didn't pray enough or asked for some stupid things, so now he has to wait another 12 months???? To get his bread for his family the answer was NO, I don't remember where he took it from but here is what he said, in rosh hashuna there is a mishpat and all jews are mfasphshin bmasim, everyone takes upon himself all good things and hashem sees it and puts a "Passed stamp" or our file, so if a person feels during the year he needs to appeal his sentence, all he gota do is, be mfashpesh bmasim and do emesdig thsuvah and he makes his own rosh hashuna , on a cold friday in shvat, so than he can win again to have all good stuff

just overcame a  HUGE DEPRESSION CRISIS, i spent a few hours today doing NOTHING just spending time online (only kosher places of course) and in the past this behavior would throw me off balance & make me do bad things (prior to GYE) or getting depressed & starting to curse away after GYE, but today i WON, i am here with you guys laughing at the YH, yes i wasted a lot time doing nothing, but i won’t give in for the depression, i said NO to him he is not gana be sort of הרצחת וגם ירשת i laugh at him, this is what he wants us to give up & i am not it’s still 4:00 2 hours to go & i will go here, i heard a shier a long time ago from a rav here in Brooklyn whom i happen not to like but he said a good tip, he spoke to buchirem in yeshiva, after killing the entire morning sider, 7 suddenly they see its 1:40 they go into panic, so the chavrusa is debating whether to finish off the sider in the politics & make a kabula to start fresh tomorrow or they say no let’s get at least 5 minutes of torah , some will say the former is better as this way they won’t feel good about themselv & they will know tomorrow to watch better on our  time, but the truth is that its masah yitser, just kick him out today don’t let him make a sleep over , as we all know that after a day he is no longer a guest he gains balas on u, so i just adopted that a lot of times & it’s really a good one

Ok back to work now, see Ya l8r

jewinpain wrote on 22 Mar 2010 18:51:


The Chozeh of Lublin says that the first 12 days of Nissan correspond to the 12 months of the year. Today is the seventh day - Tishrei. Isn't it interesting that you wrote about having a mid-year Rosh Hashanah TODAY!!!!!?????????!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes my holy brother every minute of a jew's life down here is intresting again and again

update guys! i won on the depression but LOST on the time, i ahve not been able to get myself back to work, can anyone give me a few tips how to beat this stupid internet addicton, i hat this internet takes away all my time than nothing gets done

Welcome to club

My little advice? Never laugh at the YH, he's a menuval, a mushchis, a sicko perv, but he demands our respect. We are all here because he has practically beaten us into submission. So while I'm super happy you were able to keep it clean, I would not want to laugh at the YH, you might get him angry...

See this gemara (Succah 37A) about what one amora would say while shaking the lulav, and what the gemara says about it...

רב אחא בר יעקב ממטי ליה ומייתי ליה, אמר: דין גירא בעיניה דסטנא. ולאו מלתא היא, משום דאתי לאיגרויי ביה

But in all other news, keep up the good work, and keep on fighting the good fight!

As Dov says, "no arrow in the eye of the Y"H for me. It's Hashem's fight, not mine."

(No need to respect him either though  )

Thanks guys for the advice and tips I'll keep it in mind
And let u know 2nite how I dealt with him 2day

Glad to hear how well you're doing - keep on rocking!

I think that we're not supposed to actively challenge him...but soemtimes, you really can see the funny side, and being amused helps defuse an otherwise dangerous situation - when you can actually start laughing, because you see through the desire and realize what a lie it is, it can actually be funny!

Y does life have to be such a struggle
Wouldn't it be nicer if EVERYTHING was just GR8 for everyone
Hashem would have soooo much nachas from us

No, he wouldn't. because then we wouldn't be people, we'd be robots. That's why we're in this world, remember? To deal with situations that seem ridiculously difficult, and build ourselves.

And you're doing a good job, my friend. You are.