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TOPIC: Ezra's Battle 10154 Views

Re: Ezra's Battle 15 Jun 2009 15:31 #6287

  • kedusha
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Ezra512 wrote on 15 Jun 2009 05:07:


What ended up happening was that I started searching menuval and using whatever to get around the filter, but I was careful to cover the page results and not see any ervah. While I did not fall under these terms it still can not be good and I therefore want it to be considered a fall to intetionally search or access pages known to have ervah even if I cover the pages.



Ezra,

What you are describing is definitely a "slip," and should, of course, be avoided at all costs.  I don't agree that it should count as a "fall," unless it is done repeatedly, and the person wants to be stringent upon himself.  Even so, I would only be Machmir for the future, but would not advise that you reset your count as of now.

Hatzlacha!
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Ezra's Battle 15 Jun 2009 23:19 #6334

  • Ezra512
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Kedushah,

Sorry for not clarifying myself. I meant that it should be applicable in the future.

Ezra
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Re: Ezra's Battle 29 Jun 2009 06:12 #7602

  • Ezra512
B"H

Rabosai,

I will be leaving to camp tomorrow and will therefore be able to comment less often. I hope to still try to occasionally update. Hatzlacha!

Ezra
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