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Re: bardichev's battle 10 Jun 2009 14:57 #6018

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EFSHAR LITAKEN

WELCOME BACKK FROM ERETZ ASHER "EINIEY" HASHEM BAH

h&h
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Re: bardichev's battle 10 Jun 2009 21:28 #6057

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ok I cant keep you all in suspense

the chafetz chaim asks this kashya
he says LOOK how strong the koach of SEEING is even though the sotta was seen in the worst case scenario STILL it makes an impression
the TORAH IS YORED TO SOF DAATAN SHEL ADAM

hey i just thought about this ONLY thae torah can be YEROD LISOF DAATAN SHEL ADAM!!!

h&H
bardichev see you all tomorrow at 12 pm est
so long good night if anyone needs me for emergency CPR 
please pm me

bardichev

HAPP 500 to the HEILIGE GUARD!!!!!!
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Re: bardichev's battle 10 Jun 2009 21:58 #6061

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come to think of it! walking around with a Defibrillator?! not a bad idea! lol
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Re: bardichev's battle 11 Jun 2009 11:25 #6079

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Today is BH day number 65 - and I"m reminding myself that its all chesed Hashem. May my heart hear what mouth is saying (or rather my fingers are posting !!)

I had a thought by mincha yesterday that i want to share :

we say in kedusha
נעריצך ונקדישך כסוד שיח שיח שרפי קדש......
let us revere You and sactify You just as the holy Seraphim


what do they do? they say

קדש קדש קדש ה צבקות מלא כל הארץ כבודו
Holy Holy holy is the name of Hashem, His Glory encompass the entire universe.


in other words when we say kedusha we are emulating the holy Seraphim by saying kadosh kadosh kadosh, just like  they say kedusha so do we say kedusha .

perhaps its a little deeper then that , a liitle more then a mere mimicking or parroting the holy Seraphim

Chaza"l teach us that whereever there is a  גדר ערוה  a fence against immorality, that is where you find the kedusha holiness.

which means that whenever I avert my gaze from immoral sites or whenever I overcome any urges of lust  or when I install no nonsense filters on my computers, it is precisely here  where I find kedusha

its at these moments,  the Jew declares  "I"M HEREBY SHOUTING OUT [i]"KADOSH KADOSH KADOSH HIS GLORY FILL THE ENTIRE WORLD"[/i]

Which world you ask ? my own little little world:)

in essence we don't just say kedusha at  shachris or mincha we say kedusha a whole day and a whole night

somehow this thought didn't  come to my mind before the filters were installed in my computers .
I wonder why   

Wishing the holy souls on this forum  a licteger, sober and productive day!!!

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[b]כי שבע יפול צדיק וקם[/b] 
A Tzadik is he who continues to  bounce back after he hits bottom, even a hundred times !!!!!Rav Don Segal Shlita
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Re: bardichev's battle 11 Jun 2009 15:23 #6088

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Noorah,
Its a Gevaldiger Vort! I cant wait for the next one.
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Re: bardichev's battle 11 Jun 2009 17:01 #6095

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Hello heilige tzaddikim

I am at my computer now

just checking in

ET my deribilator is at my side

I am actually about to enjoy my first installment of oneg shabbos

yes starting to_a-me-hu with chulent kishke AND overnite kigel

now you see why I need the defibrilator nearby (ch'v)

ok enjoy the milsa bedeechasa

humble happy and hungry
bardichev
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Re: bardichev's battle 11 Jun 2009 20:17 #6105

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hello all HEILIGE TZADIKKIM

OK FIRST LETS TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS TODAY IS DAY 85!!!!

SECOND I HAVE 2 TORAH THOUGHTS IF YOU FIND THAT OF INTEREST

DOVID HAMELECH SAYS IN TEHILLIM 119(THE BIG ONE) PASSUK 11

BLIBI TZAFANTI IMRASECHA LMAAN LO ACHTA LACH

IN MY HEART I KEEP YOUR TORAH IN ORDER NOT TO SIN

MY FREINDS KING DAVID KNEW THIS SUGYA INSIDE OUT!!!

OK TORAH THOUGHT NUMERO UNO

AIZEHU GIBOR WHO IS STRONG?? HAKOVESH ES YITZRO ONE WHO SURPRESSES HIS DESIRE

THE MISHNA DOES NOT SAY THE MAN WHO IS VICTORIOUS IN SURPRESSING HIS DESIRE NOR DOES IT SAY HOW LONG THE DESIRE HAS TO BE SURPRESSED FOR ALL IT SAY IS THE ONE WHO IS IN THE BATTLE THE SOLDIER WHO IS IN THE FIELD THE BOXER IN THE RINK THE GIBBOR IS THE CONTENDER NOT ONLY THE VICTOR!!!

OK TORAH THOUGHT NUMERO DOS

THIS WEEKS PARSHA SEALS WITH LUST!!
YES MY FRREEINDS THE HEILIGE TORAH TEACHES US THAT THE JEWS IN THE MIDBAR WEWRE BAD IN THE EYES OF HASHEM AND THEY LUSTED TO HAVE MEAT.IF YOU LOOK AT THE PASSUK IT SAYS HIS-AVU TAAVA MEANING THEY LUSTED/
WHY THE DOUBLE SPEAK ENTFERT THE BEN ISH CHAI THEY LUSTED WHAT? LUST ITSELF THEY CRAVED FOR LUSTFUL DESIRES!!!!
THAT IS SUCH APOWERFUL IDEA

LOVE YOU ALL

H&H
bardichev
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Re: bardichev's battle 11 Jun 2009 21:55 #6109

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Heiliger bardichiver,

Have you seen what Reb Ykv one of your Getraiye Chasidim wrote to Farentfer & make Klur Your Mehalech on Rashkebehags page regarding the Torah is the way to go?

I don't think anyone disagrees with that including Reb Dov. but I think that some of us at least when we are starting anew need to let go for a while from the Torah they were learning until now & focus on the specific Torah that deals with this issue & helps us get out of the shmutz. And only when we are on more stable ground can we go back to the heavy shteiging away on all other subjects we did in the past.

I guess we are all on the same page now that Reb Ykv put it so Brilliantly.

I really admire Reb Ykv's "Loshoin Hazuhov" & his klurkeit on these issues.

Thanks for the D'Var Torah
Keep it Flowing

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Re: bardichev's battle 11 Jun 2009 22:54 #6114

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reb efshar

we are all trying to get to the same point

whoever is on this site is a tzaddik a mivakesh ha-emes

I feel it is mechazik me every minuet of the day

I feel after I post here I can MOON from myself to be CHUTSH as good as what I write

as long as you are here you have a tachlis you are KEMPFING with the TIMMINER BAAL DUVER

BTW the chulent was yummy!!

h&H
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Re: bardichev's battle 12 Jun 2009 01:01 #6119

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Dear berdichever - After posting an unbelieveably long post on another page, some to you, some to reb Yaakov, I read your post here, saw the defibrillator comment and laughed so hard I almost fell of my chair. Thank-you and thank Hashem for you, helping me and others stop taking so many things so darn seriously! Yasher Koach! Good shabbos and Reb Levi Yitzchak is surely smiling on all of us, possibly laughing, too! Do they have chairs up there?
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."
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Re: bardichev's battle 12 Jun 2009 06:08 #6132

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I think Dov asked if they have chairs up there, because he suggested that Rav Levi Yitzchak may be laughing - and he wanted to know if it is possible to "fall off your chair" in Shamayim?

Dov - I will check with my sources on this and get back to you  ;D
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Re: bardichev's battle 12 Jun 2009 06:08 #6133

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Dov,
Whenever bardichev says anything I just laugh.  That Yid is so funny.  

bardichev,
thanks for bringing simcha to our forum.
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Re: bardichev's battle 12 Jun 2009 15:14 #6153

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Hey Bardichev,

I haev an important question for you that I think many people also have but dont realize it. What exactly is thing we call "LUST"? We say thats what we are addicted to but i cant admit that unlessI know what it means. To me its just a word that has bad connotations with sexual and impure feelings? Please elaborate Bardichev or anyone else that feels they can answer it.

Thanks
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Re: bardichev's battle 12 Jun 2009 17:01 #6156

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United States Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart said about pornography that it's hard to define, but "I know it when I see it."  To paraphrase Justice Stewart - we know what lust is when we experience it. 
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: bardichev's battle 12 Jun 2009 17:16 #6157

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Yes tayere ineedhelp!!

In order to answer you i will have to look up a most yesodesdikke sefer the gaon on mishlie

For a quick answer

Every person (not animal) has intellect his intellect is used to judge and weigh his actions and reaction to everything in life.

A person is very simple and very complex for example the brain is hard wired to breathe, seek food and shelter, sleep etc.

There are ways that Hashem helped us do our basic needs for existence .for example to eat he gave us hunger pangs as an alarm system that says "feed me or I will faint" he gave us an appetite so we should want to feed the body. If we had no appetite eating would be as enjoyable as filling a gas tank of your car Hashem actually built into our minds  a "desire" (chemda) we are wired to seek out things that we enjoy.

As an aside

It is a common mistake people think that life as a yid is meant to be  avodas perech  and enjoying life is as a Jew is left for some
People who dance on top of cars (nothing against anyone just a mashal )
Judaism is living a life of enjoyment (not self indulgence we will get to that soon be"h)

Back to your question we are created to desire enjoyment. If there was no enjoyment in the world there would be no business no food and no society at all ( everything I write can be found in chaza"l)

ACTUALLY THE GENERATOR OF OUR PLEASURE SEEKING /DESIRE IS NONE LESS THAN THE YETZER HORAH!!!!

What bardichev are you off your rocker??? No. I am right here and on target. The medrash teaches us vayar elok-im ess kol asher asa vhinei tov meod .tov ze ytzer tov (of course) meod zeh y"h !!!! Are you still reading this or are you dancing yet ?? You will be dancing soon. Hang on to my gartel for a few more salvos

We all know when the chachamim davened for the y"h of avoda zara to be removed it was (when was the last time you saw a terach style getshka store) the also prayed that the desire for znus to be removed .what happened husbands and wives had no relation even animals and fowl had no relations!!! (open gemoros not a fairy tale)

Meaning the dynamic the spark the initiation the instant of inspiration comes from the y'h  the generator of desire!!!
So what’s wrong with desire bardichev?? You make it sound like the best thing in the world (yes it is )
One second of desire the genie is out of the bottle .if gain if you harness it you will become the ultimate human being if not you will become totally controlled and totally subhuman!!!

Wow bardichev stop here my head is spinning!!!

Ok I will make it simple you can have a Ferrari Testarossa zero to 90 in 2 second whatever.. If you don't have brakes on it you can never drive it. Yes if the would have built the Ferrari in chelm
They would not put  brakes on it and of course the car would not even make it out of the garage.

We explained desire. Lust is one notch up lust is raw desire used as an end for itself not as a means to bring you to the level you are trying to attain.

Desire is enjoyable lust can be even more enjoyable but so much more dangerous be careful if you see the no brakes Ferrari coming down your street. also lust is self destructive.

I hope I explained it

And that was quickly yikes!!!

Humble and happy
bardichev
GUT SHABBOS TO ALL
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