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TOPIC: just do it! 7807 Views
Re: just do it! 08 Apr 2025 17:21 #434365
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Hashem must be very proud of me, i am really not happy at my job, and i'm looking to leave for weeks already, as a lot of people know, the matzev now with jobs is not good, there are almost no jobs available, i got a golden offer, to work for a competition of my current boss, but instead of a reg worker i was able to be a manager over 8 people, make a lot of money (he told me 250k after a year or two, i make now less then 90k) but one issue, i would need to work closely almost all day with another Jewish woman, (mid-high 30's single) not shoimer shabbos, but speaking Yiddish
 , and on the meeting she was a bit too friendly, making jokes Etc. i was debating for the last 2 weeks till i finally said no to the offer yesterday. Warning: Spoiler! |
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Re: just do it! 08 Apr 2025 18:11 #434369
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ybird wrote on 08 Apr 2025 17:21:
Hashem must be very proud of me, i am really not happy at my job, and i'm looking to leave for weeks already, as a lot of people know, the matzev now with jobs is not good, there are almost no jobs available, i got a golden offer, to work for a competition of my current boss, but instead of a reg worker i was able to be a manager over 8 people, make a lot of money (he told me 250k after a year or two, i make now less then 90k) but one issue, i would need to work closely almost all day with another Jewish woman, (mid-high 30's single) not shoimer shabbos, but speaking Yiddish , and on the meeting she was a bit too friendly, making jokes Etc. i was debating for the last 2 weeks till i finally said no to the offer yesterday. Warning: Spoiler!Hashem should shower you with bracha, what you did was not pashut at all, it would have been very easy to be moreh heiter and I'm sure many would have done so in your place |
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Re: just do it! 08 Apr 2025 19:46 #434379
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Re: just do it! 08 Apr 2025 20:21 #434382
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ybird wrote on 08 Apr 2025 17:21:
Hashem must be very proud of me, i am really not happy at my job, and i'm looking to leave for weeks already, as a lot of people know, the matzev now with jobs is not good, there are almost no jobs available, i got a golden offer, to work for a competition of my current boss, but instead of a reg worker i was able to be a manager over 8 people, make a lot of money (he told me 250k after a year or two, i make now less then 90k) but one issue, i would need to work closely almost all day with another Jewish woman, (mid-high 30's single) not shoimer shabbos, but speaking Yiddish , and on the meeting she was a bit too friendly, making jokes Etc. i was debating for the last 2 weeks till i finally said no to the offer yesterday. Warning: Spoiler!Wow!!! Hats off to you - you should always have such clarity and sense of mission! |
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Re: just do it! 09 Apr 2025 15:05 #434433
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ybird wrote on 08 Apr 2025 17:21:
Hashem must be very proud of me, i am really not happy at my job, and i'm looking to leave for weeks already, as a lot of people know, the matzev now with jobs is not good, there are almost no jobs available, i got a golden offer, to work for a competition of my current boss, but instead of a reg worker i was able to be a manager over 8 people, make a lot of money (he told me 250k after a year or two, i make now less then 90k) but one issue, i would need to work closely almost all day with another Jewish woman, (mid-high 30's single) not shoimer shabbos, but speaking Yiddish , and on the meeting she was a bit too friendly, making jokes Etc. i was debating for the last 2 weeks till i finally said no to the offer yesterday. Warning: Spoiler!Wow wow wow! I am flabbergasted. Hashem, look at you push*tta kinderlich, not taking a job which would pay a LOT more (and who cant use more money), just for your sake! No less that the Yidden in America of yesteryear who got the pink slip every Friday. I envy you, I too am very (read: extremely) unhappy at my job, bless me to have that strength if I ever find my self in that situation. |
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