Day 22 23 24 25 clean !!!
My wife is currently Nidda, so it's a more complicated period to go through.Note to myself: I need to be a bit more careful than usual and not let misplaced pride make me believe I can get through difficult times alone. I should seek help when I can't manage on my own.

yoshi wrote on 16 Feb 2025 08:51:

Beautiful! 
I love the self-awareness!
Did you plan out how you will seek help? Have you ever been in touch with anyone from GYE?

Thanks for your response. It's true that I've never really talked to someone from GYE. I've been on the chat at times when I was struggling more, but not on a regular basis. In general, just going on the forum, writing, and sometimes replying to other topics helps calm my urges. But if you have any ideas or advice to share, I'm open to them.

Day 26 - 27 clean !!

yoshi wrote on 19 Feb 2025 10:25:

Hey dear yoshi, i think the advice was pretty clear, u even mentioned it in this very post!

Wishing u much luck from the mir!

yoshi wrote on 19 Feb 2025 10:25:

Many people have found that the path out of this struggle is largely through connection - real life connection - to other people from this wonderful site.
It is extremely scary to make that first call and it requires a build up of real courage.
There are many amazing people here you can call, you can also try to look around at some of their stories and posts to see if you connect to anyone in particular. 

Here's a small list of some of the guys:
HHM - Hashem Help Me - is the mentor-in-chief around here. He's reachable at michelgelner@gmail.com.
Some of the other great guys here are Eerie - 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com, Muttel - muttel15@gmail.com,   Reb Akiva - mevakesh247@gmail.com iwantlife - iwantlifegye@proton.me minhamayim - minhamayim1@gmail.com

Please seriously consider reaching out. It just may change your life.

P.S. You can reach out to me, too. My info is in my signature.

proudyungerman wrote on 19 Feb 2025 15:51:

There, that's much better!

thank to everyone i think the message is clear know 
but i'm not fluent in english so i don't feel like to speak on the phone 

yoshi wrote on 19 Feb 2025 18:23:

for yiddish drik eintz, leivrit hekish shnoyim, loesponyul tress, for english please press 4, please let us know what you speak, there's someone for everyone!

What if it's Japanese......then only Alteh Mirrers are farmiliar with that one

azivashacheit101 wrote on 19 Feb 2025 21:19:

日本のプレス5向け

A thing about the fellas on GYE - we don't give up easily 

Come on! that's clearly Korean you can't fool me

azivashacheit101 wrote on 19 Feb 2025 21:35:

Honestly, I wouldn't know 

BenHashemBH wrote on 19 Feb 2025 21:54:

Me neither, all I know is that Japanese writes uo and down as opposed to side by side

azivashacheit101 wrote on 20 Feb 2025 12:42:

ယောက်ျားတွေအပေါ်လာပါ! သိသာထင်ရှားတဲ့ကဗမာ !!