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Re: Just Starting 02 Feb 2010 20:03 #50695

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Steve wrote on 02 Feb 2010 16:10:

sci1977 wrote on 02 Feb 2010 16:03:

Keep on going,  were here for you and yes 1977 was the year I was born!!  Stay postive and remember we are all here at GYE to help each other.


Well, 1977 was the year I totaled my parent's car. It was a lemon anyway, even tho it was a new Lesabre. Lost control on a back road at 80 MPH, flew over a guard rail off the road at the top of a hill, literally, touched down 30-something feet away from the road in a dirt field, missed a phone pole by a few feet, and walked away without a scratch. Now i see Hashem saved me in the zechus of sci1977's birth.

Thanx, my friend, i owe you one.


1977 - So Ironic that was the year i totaled my Bright Red Matchbox car...Wow  - Steve this Aibishter really needed you here...G-d creates us and sustains us - And G-d Don't make no junk...(paraphrased from Rabbi Twersky)

Have a great day me dearest freinds.
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Re: Just Starting 02 Feb 2010 20:05 #50696

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So we are working working....hamlacha Merubah...Vhapoalim Atzailim...Avda B'hefkeira Naicha Laih....Today we are going to be free To be what we want to really be.
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Re: Just Starting 03 Feb 2010 18:36 #50953

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Hello there...My dear friends,

Good Sunny California Morning to you. So we are into our 7th day Baruch Hashem...I just met a man who had his leg amputated and he told me, "I'm slowly gettting back on my foot." This really happened, no jokes.

In order to stay clean and sin free we must really think about and relate to the brochos...Pokeach Ivrim...I can see...Zokef Kefufim....I can walk...Malbish Arumim ...I have clothes....Without real gratitude in our daily lives...we become resentful, full of self pity so then we self medicate with these unhealthy habits...

Steve I hope you don't sue me for copyright violation.  :D
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Re: Just Starting 03 Feb 2010 23:20 #51037

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Absolutely true - to the extent that we realize how much hashem has given us, we're grateful, and happy.
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Re: Just Starting 04 Feb 2010 03:02 #51070

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humanbeing wrote on 03 Feb 2010 18:36:

Hello there...My dear friends,

Good Sunny California Morning to you. So we are into our 7th day Baruch Hashem...I just met a man who had his leg amputated and he told me, "I'm slowly gettting back on my foot." This really happened, no jokes.

In order to stay clean and sin free we must really think about and relate to the brochos...Pokeach Ivrim...I can see...Zokef Kefufim....I can walk...Malbish Arumim ...I have clothes....Without real gratitude in our daily lives...we become resentful, full of self pity so then we self medicate with these unhealthy habits...

Steve I hope you don't sue me for copyright violation.  :D

Beautiful thoughts.

You should pass this along to JIP. I think this is exactly what he needs to hear right now.
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Re: Just Starting 04 Feb 2010 12:49 #51121

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Halevi,

I felt JIPPED until I figured out you meant JewinPain, in accountability group 7.

He who thought of the mitzvah should be the one do do it.

GO FOR IT, PINCHAS!!

HB,

You can quote me anytime, and you don't need to pay royalties either.

KEEP STONG, HOLY BRO, AND HAVE AN AWESOME DAY!!!
No one is so small that he can not give help, and no one is so big that he doesn't need it.

Kol HaOlam Kulo, Gesher Tzar Meod, V'HaIkkar: Lo L'Pacheid Klal.
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Re: Just Starting 05 Feb 2010 02:21 #51325

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Would never JIP you, Steve  8)

Steeeeeeeeevie, you're quite the pickle. I've noticed you're rocking up that chart to 90. Inspirational.
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Re: Just Starting 05 Feb 2010 09:12 #51357

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Halevi, Steve...Thanks for checking in...hey Steve I know you throw your weight around quite alot...Your wisdom and wit are legendary. However if you can drop buy Accountability Group #7 and see if you can help out JewinPain....He needs and expert pickerUpperMan...I'm doing my best but we might need the Barrel-Chested Eliite Commando, Steve.

Hey lookee here I'm on Level 2.

One week is easy for me...Now starts the challenge...Dan Dan Dan Daaan! (Dramatic music) - I really am tone deaf.
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Re: Just Starting 05 Feb 2010 09:20 #51360

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Well if you can do one week you can do another. One day at a time. Literally!! And youll get places you never thought reachable!!

Have a great shabbos!!
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Re: Just Starting 05 Feb 2010 09:24 #51362

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I believe I have to acknowledge that in my particular Chait ther eis an issue of buildup ...In the 2nd week I need to find positive outlets for the anxiety and challengs that I face....One week buildup is easy to handle ...Thanks for checking in IT.
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Re: Just Starting 05 Feb 2010 09:27 #51364

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I hear. Hmmmmmmmmmmm. This is what it REALLY means one day at a time. One day!! TODAY!!!! Nothing to do with yesterday!! Nothing to do with tomorrow!! Just today. See if that works. I always felt that the reason why time brought buildup issues was because i was counting the days. Even subconciously sometimes. If we could focus just on today it might be easier.  Either way keep on rollin and hae a great shabbos. ANd if you feel the urge comin on strong send a shout out and im sure youll get some help!!!
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Re: Just Starting 05 Feb 2010 19:43 #51494

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Cousin IT is right. Counting works for some, and interferes for others.

Forget about the past. Look at each day as it comes. Then there's no buildup. BRILLIANT as usual, IT.

HB, did you ever hear about the story of the rebbe Reb Zeesha, who couldn't walk out the door to shul each morning until he made a bigger kabbolah than the day before?

For non-angels like you and me, the best we can hope for is to make THE SAME Kabbola. And HKB"H will keep count, not us.

Hashem has met you half-way already!! You know what i mean. He has sent you eitzas to bring you to a high level of Simcha, that will carry you for the next few weeks. Keep feeling that Ikkar Simcha.

Oh, and find the chassam Sofer on the Gemorrah in megillah, daf Chof Chess Amud Beis, about Reish lakeish and the talmud chacham. look in the Mesivta sefer in the commentary section. Why Reish Lakeish answered him like this, and what the hemshich is to the famous Tanna D'bei R' Yishmael. It'll help you to be b'simcha more often.

With love and respect, and wishes for a wonderful and leibedike Shabbos!!
No one is so small that he can not give help, and no one is so big that he doesn't need it.

Kol HaOlam Kulo, Gesher Tzar Meod, V'HaIkkar: Lo L'Pacheid Klal.
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Re: Just Starting 05 Feb 2010 20:04 #51498

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Steve my head is spinning from the M"M...Will look it up the next time I make into Yeshivah...The Rebbe Reb Zeesha's Yartzeiht is on my birthday....Wow what Hashgocho Elyonah

Since Teshuva is a Mitzvah it must be done Bsimcha...Ivdu ess Hashem B'simcha...Thank you for helping me work on my Bitachon. I have to trust Hashem that Buildup Shmildup he will look down at his Dear sweet Kinderle (and even if he has the smmeiliest diaper) he will help me keep myself clean with love and nachas!!!
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Re: Just Starting 05 Feb 2010 20:24 #51507

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Keep on trucking.  Have a wonderful shabbos. 
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Re: Just Starting 06 Feb 2010 21:08 #51549

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Now thats the right attitude. Hashem wants you to know that you can do it, that anything you try youll see thers nothing to it!!

Oh where is letakain?? Cant anyone get my lines anymore??

Have an absolutly awesome week my friend.

And keep on showing us what a human being is really about!!   :D :D
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